“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I went on a date with this 8-9/10 chick with BF 2 times and yesterday she invited me to her house. We had tea (yeye I know.. but I am in the UK).

Everything went fine, we were having an awesome time and teasing each other. When I went to escalate (did not went in for the kiss, told her that I want to go out with her more often as I liked her) she smiled and turned red and said that she likes me too.. and after a sec or so she says that she cant date me because I am not a Christian and she doesn't date non-Christians. She also mentioned that she is a virgin and that she abstains till the marriage. She told me to stay friends and I said no.. She looked really surprised. After this incident we watched the movie (I was still cool and playful - touched her a couple of times) and left.. Ohh forgot to mention that before I left I asked her to hug me and she gave me a hug.

What do you guys think? Did I screw it up? Does what she said sound like an excuse.. or is she cray cray? Anyway, my plan now is not to contact her again until she contact me..

TBH I cant get why she played the Christian card.. I know that is Christian but she is way too cool to be crazy.. anyway has anyone of you guys had any experiences like that? I dont want to go and fall into the crazy nest..
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just going to highlight everything wrong about this...

xupc said:
I went on a date with this 8-9/10 chick with BF 2 times and yesterday she invited me to her house. We had tea (yeye I know.. but I am in the UK).

Everything went fine, we were having an awesome time and teasing each other. When I went to escalate (did not went in for the kiss, told her that I want to go out with her more often as I liked her) she smiled and turned red and said that she likes me too.. and after a sec or so she says that she cant date me because I am not a Christian and she doesn't date non-Christians. She also mentioned that she is a virgin and that she abstains till the marriage. She told me to stay friends and I said no.. She looked really surprised. After this incident we watched the movie (I was still cool and playful - touched her a couple of times) and left.. Ohh forgot to mention that before I left I asked her to hug me and she gave me a hug.

What do you guys think? Did I screw it up? Does what she said sound like an excuse.. or is she cray cray? Anyway, my plan now is not to contact her again until she contact me..

TBH I cant get why she played the Christian card.. I know that is Christian but she is way too cool to be crazy.. anyway has anyone of you guys had any experiences like that? I dont want to go and fall into the crazy nest..
Penance: Moving on from the christian virgin with a boyfriend whom you asked for a hug and reading The Book of Pook front to back.

Go with god.
 

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Turning all these to blue freaked the crap out of me. Will start reading the book of pook asap
 
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