"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Was my approach crappy?

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I went on a date with this 8-9/10 chick with BF 2 times and yesterday she invited me to her house. We had tea (yeye I know.. but I am in the UK).

Everything went fine, we were having an awesome time and teasing each other. When I went to escalate (did not went in for the kiss, told her that I want to go out with her more often as I liked her) she smiled and turned red and said that she likes me too.. and after a sec or so she says that she cant date me because I am not a Christian and she doesn't date non-Christians. She also mentioned that she is a virgin and that she abstains till the marriage. She told me to stay friends and I said no.. She looked really surprised. After this incident we watched the movie (I was still cool and playful - touched her a couple of times) and left.. Ohh forgot to mention that before I left I asked her to hug me and she gave me a hug.

What do you guys think? Did I screw it up? Does what she said sound like an excuse.. or is she cray cray? Anyway, my plan now is not to contact her again until she contact me..

TBH I cant get why she played the Christian card.. I know that is Christian but she is way too cool to be crazy.. anyway has anyone of you guys had any experiences like that? I dont want to go and fall into the crazy nest..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just going to highlight everything wrong about this...

xupc said:
I went on a date with this 8-9/10 chick with BF 2 times and yesterday she invited me to her house. We had tea (yeye I know.. but I am in the UK).

Everything went fine, we were having an awesome time and teasing each other. When I went to escalate (did not went in for the kiss, told her that I want to go out with her more often as I liked her) she smiled and turned red and said that she likes me too.. and after a sec or so she says that she cant date me because I am not a Christian and she doesn't date non-Christians. She also mentioned that she is a virgin and that she abstains till the marriage. She told me to stay friends and I said no.. She looked really surprised. After this incident we watched the movie (I was still cool and playful - touched her a couple of times) and left.. Ohh forgot to mention that before I left I asked her to hug me and she gave me a hug.

What do you guys think? Did I screw it up? Does what she said sound like an excuse.. or is she cray cray? Anyway, my plan now is not to contact her again until she contact me..

TBH I cant get why she played the Christian card.. I know that is Christian but she is way too cool to be crazy.. anyway has anyone of you guys had any experiences like that? I dont want to go and fall into the crazy nest..
Penance: Moving on from the christian virgin with a boyfriend whom you asked for a hug and reading The Book of Pook front to back.

Go with god.
 

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Turning all these to blue freaked the crap out of me. Will start reading the book of pook asap
 
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