"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Was it right for me to only give her my phone number?

Mr. Mystery II

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Next time you see her, talk like you normally do, then bring up the fact that she hasn't called you. This can come off as desparate if you are in fact desparate, but if you have other options it will show that you can calmly handle an awkward situation and that you are confident and straight forward.

Suggest that she give her number to you so that you can call her. If she gives you a big deal about it, forget it and move on.

Also, just because she doesn't call doesn't mean she's not interested at all. Some women will call first, some won't, but it has more to do with the women than her interest level.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KUcollegeguy

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I usually see her every Monday, but should I tomorrow? Or should I wait a week then go back to see her, to see if she calls me first?
 
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