was it a good move?

[danro]

the girl i like loves getting her feet massaged. last night she was having one of her guy friends massage her foot and she asked me if i wanted to massage her other foot. i said that it was alrite so i didnt massage her foot.

i wanna no if this was a good decision cuz i no u want to kinda play hard to get and u dont wanna seem like u can be pushed around easily. but it might have been a bad move cuz it was a good oppurtunity to get some kino in. just wondering what i should do if this happens again

 

[DJ4Real]

good move.

 

[bullmoose]

"Tell you what. He massages that foot, I'll massage this one, and we'll meet in the middle somewhere."

 

[EquityPrivate]

Originally posted by danro
the girl i like loves getting her feet massaged. last night she was having one of her guy friends massage her foot and she asked me if i wanted to massage her other foot. i said that it was alrite so i didnt massage her foot.

i wanna no if this was a good decision cuz i no u want to kinda play hard to get and u dont wanna seem like u can be pushed around easily. but it might have been a bad move cuz it was a good opportunity to get some kino in. just wondering what i should do if this happens again

See, it's fine to turn her down, but you have to be more clever about it.

HB1: "Hey, I'm only getting one foot massaged, do you want to have the honor of palpating my other ped?"
You: "Well, you know, as I am a fully bonded and licensed masseur, my fee is $250 per half hour. Unfortunately, as you have not established a line of credit yet I will have to ask for the fee in advance." *hand out* "Or, if you are currently experiencing a temporary shortage of disposable income, we can perhaps work out an exchange of... services?" *Wry grin, wink*
HB1: "Uh, I don't think..."
You: "Ah, I see. Well, I have other clients waiting." (Turn back... head off towards the nearest HB- hopefully within view of Her).
You to HB2: "Hey, you look like you need a foot massage too, like that girl over there" <point> "...take off your shoes, I'll give you one. By the way, my name's Danro."

Bingo. Negged. Frozen out. Social Proof. And Kino on another HB.

Win, win, win and win.

It's all about the DJudo. Don Juan Judo. Use your opponents own actions against her.

 

[bullmoose]

Dude.

Good post.

 

[SynapsyS]

Re: Re: was it a good move?

Originally posted by EquityPrivate
See, it's fine to turn her down, but you have to be more clever about it.

HB1: "Hey, I'm only getting one foot massaged, do you want to have the honor of palpating my other ped?"
You: "Well, you know, as I am a fully bonded and licensed masseur, my fee is $250 per half hour. Unfortunately, as you have not established a line of credit yet I will have to ask for the fee in advance." *hand out* "Or, if you are currently experiencing a temporary shortage of disposable income, we can perhaps work out an exchange of... services?" *Wry grin, wink*
HB1: "Uh, I don't think..."
You: "Ah, I see. Well, I have other clients waiting." (Turn back... head off towards the nearest HB- hopefully within view of Her).
You to HB2: "Hey, you look like you need a foot massage too, like that girl over there" <point> "...take off your shoes, I'll give you one. By the way, my name's Danro."

Bingo. Negged. Frozen out. Social Proof. And Kino on another HB.

Win, win, win and win.

It's all about the DJudo. Don Juan Judo. Use your opponents own actions against her.

Whoa.

Just..

Whoa.

You've got me all inspired to start creating awesome combinations now.

Syn.

 

[Phat]

No this is what you should of did..

You shoulda said to the other guy " i hope you clean your hands after that" So she could hear it.

 

[Anomalous]

EquityPrivate


Good job EquityPrivate, i am impressed, you know your stuff pretty good for a new guy. LISTEN TO THIS GUY, HE KNOWS WHAT HE'S TALKING ABOUT.