"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I told my girlfriend(1 year) that we would hang out today, 6-7 i'd call her.

I call her 6:20 the phone goes to her answering machine. She calls me at 7:20 saying if i want to hang out today? i said i called her and she didn't pick up. She said did you call me around 6:30 i was playing music on my phone. I said ya. But i'm watching the game now. she said if i want to hang out tomorrow. I said sure.

But when she hung up she was like Enjoy the game in a very sarcastic/joking way.

Did i overreact?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In terms of rapport? Does it bring negative emotions?

Would it have been better to say well i'm in the middle of something want to grab a coffee at 8?
 
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LOL, its your gf man no need to play games like that. keep the childish **** up and she'll lose interest

one things keeping her on her toes, another things bein silly
 
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Stud No1 said:
LOL, its your gf man no need to play games like that. keep the childish **** up and she'll lose interest

one things keeping her on her toes, another things bein silly
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How do i make up?
 
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How do i make up?
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no need to make up as such man. you're entitled to your own time.

just dont make a habit of being trivial
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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