Was I wrong for this?

[SeymourCake]

Last night I called this girl, she didn't answer so she replied back in a text saying she was with her boyfriend.

This morning she texts me saying, "cheer me up"

So I go on a azzhole mode and told her to ask her boyfriend to cheer her up.

She says her boyfriend has nothing to do with cheering her up. Friends should cheer her up, and etc...

I told her we barely saw each other in person (we mostly talk on FB) I told her, her boyfriend should be on her first on her priority list when coming to cheer her up.

She calls me crazy, and then she says her other friends cheered her up.

I was gonna say, "Good, now if you need anything, ask them for help." but I didn't because I thought I was going too far. So I left it at that around 11AM this morning. Now it's 9:40 PM...

I shouldn't apologize, should I?

 

[Kirro]

The only wrong thing you did was replying to her in the first place. She wants to use you as an emotional tampon. Forget her & move on.

 

[DonJuanit0]

The only wrong thing you did was replying to her in the first place. She wants to use you as an emotional tampon. Forget her & move on.

I'm really impressed! This is the best thing I could think to say and Kirro has 2 posts on this forum and is here since 2010?!? Very nice

Kirro couldn't be more right! Never be the emotional tampon for a woman!


Obviously you ain't aiming for a friendship with her, which should have been clear from the start, so she shouldn't have told you, "my other friends cheer me up"!

If she did it despite the fact that she knew that you aren't seeing her as a friend then she just want to play with you! Just next her and she might even catch the bait and see you different, if this happens it's your call to f*ck her or not...

 

[CarlitosWay]

Now you could have made this into a win situation and just say something along the lines of "You know what get a couple of your cute friends and lets go do something!!" lmao ok long shot....

anyways I agree 100% with these other guys, I hate when chics who showed no real interest in me start texting me **** like "I'm bored" "I need to get cheered up" Wtf ? I tell em off by saying "I was doing just fine before you texted me" or something along those lines....

This chic sounds like another attention *****...nothing new buddy. Just have some fun with it and move on

 

[GettinLuckyAintLuck]

sounds to me like this girl is a real slut who wanted some d i c k and you didn't wanna give it to her because she has a "boyfriend." You lookin' for p u s s y or are you looking for a wife? Look in the mirror and ask yourself that question....girls with boyfriends are perfect, u dont have to be the valentine's day loser but u can still fuc K them the day after...

 

[DonJuanit0]

sounds to me like this girl is a real slut who wanted some d i c k and you didn't wanna give it to her because she has a "boyfriend." You lookin' for p u s s y or are you looking for a wife? Look in the mirror and ask yourself that question....girls with boyfriends are perfect, u dont have to be the valentine's day loser but u can still fuc K them the day after...

You have lost your path... She is just an AW and she wouldn't f*ck him! She just wanted her ego boosted! That's why she referred to him as a friend...

 

[Ease]

Sounds like you were crying and kicking your feet the whole time you were texting her.

Why did you get jealous and angry because she had a boyfriend?

 

[kingsam]

Sounds like you were crying and kicking your feet the whole time you were texting her.

Why did you get jealous and angry because she had a boyfriend?

indifference to bad women is the key!

if any thing, the OP should be happy he didnt waste any time on her

 

[Warrior74]

Yah. Your text sounded really petulant and pouty. This is why texting sucks...just like on messageboards, the context gets lost in translation. Your best bet would have been to leave it alone from the jump.

 

[SeymourCake]

Meh, I'll keep that in mind next time. I don't like texting, instant messaging and etc either.