was I too pushy (-> needy)?

[st_99]

I asked her if she would want to meet my friends or come for a weekend and visit a foreign city with just me (it means taking a flight together and spend time with me only). I got for both positive answer. She even introduced me personally to her best friend. Just examples. Maybe not strong enough? It could be absolutely but to me they seem pretty "tangible"

ok, thats all wrong. this is not what i mean by screening. this is simply you wanting to bring her into your world.

what i mean by screen a b!tch is to say things like...

you dont seem like gf material to me, more the party type (wait for a response)

you seem like one of those girls that are terrible with money, you probably have like 40 grand in credit card debt (wait for a response)

i'm the kind of guy who likes to have fun, do you even like to have fun?

this is the basic gist, there are tons of other types of questions, get creative with it. that is how you screen.

 

[joker79]

Thanks St_99.
The only thing of this kind I did was saying "sorry but i'm not buying in s*** like "we are not at this stage or I just got out from a relationship" so it's better if we stop now". She seemed really displeased and tried to say that we were going well until that stage.