Here's the situation guys...bear with me, its slightly long...
I kissed this girl earlier this year in a random encounter, it turned out she was a friend of a friend. Anyway, no biggie and I hadn't seen her since...until last night. So we hit it right off (getting on well), all go out as a group. I didn't hang about with her too much though though, i think i just wound her up a bit and brushed her off as a joke - i was a bit drunk and was more interested in wandering about talking to girls etc..
So, thinking no more about it really (and kissing another girl - she didn't see or anything), when she got home she called me telling me to come back to my friends house she wanted to see me. I came back at my leisure (about an hour late) and we stayed up til 5 making out and stuff. I actually quite like this girl, she's pretty hot (solid objective 6.5, and imo 7 with potential to be higher) and VERY easy to get along with. Would, at first guess, seem to be quite my type.
Next morning (this morning) i wake up and realise i left something at the house, gave her a buzz and came around to get it. Sober, worried she mightn't be as hot as i thought - i popped round for a cuppa tea and to get my forgotten item...we get on great and i give her a kiss before leaving. We both obviously like each other already.
So she's out tonight and im just out at dinner with my family as she knows. Im home in bed and she's texting me telling me she wants me to "see her new dress". Im like, sorry babe but im taking it easy 2night, but definately another time. Disappointed, she replies all annoyed saying she can take a hint. 5 minutes later she rings me begging me to come up (as she waited up for me the night before). Im like....i just....cant because im at home with my parents theyd think im mad heading out at this time for no reason. I sense obviously that drinks involved and that i made such a strong impression in our first encounter(s) she got tipsy and really wanted to see me. I suppose that's the buzz about meeting someone at the beginning .
So is it spontaneous to drive up (10 miles) meet her and im sure get a bit of action (shes not a slut.....well i dont think so but ill try find out if im wrong) or do what ive done, stick to my guns and show her she can't say jump and i say how high? (im not that type of guy so no point being like that anyway.
...Ok she's clearly drunk cuz she just texted me saying how she thinks im so sweet blah blah blah and admits shes drunk lol. I like her but she's coming on a bit strong to say the least.
Now, i like a girl that doesn't waste my time and play games but obviously this is a bit overly direct, esp if she's not just a slut looking for sex (again, im pretty sure that's not her game...but time will tell
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Why is it that girls that like me REALLY like me and girls that don't, just don't. No real happy medium in my experience. Hmmm.
So, advice please....do i just play it cool and semi-offend her or go with it? What would you do in my position 2night, would you collect her with such short notice? The way i see it, i play it my way and see how it goes, but maybe some of you DJ's might play it differently at the early stages?
I kissed this girl earlier this year in a random encounter, it turned out she was a friend of a friend. Anyway, no biggie and I hadn't seen her since...until last night. So we hit it right off (getting on well), all go out as a group. I didn't hang about with her too much though though, i think i just wound her up a bit and brushed her off as a joke - i was a bit drunk and was more interested in wandering about talking to girls etc..
So, thinking no more about it really (and kissing another girl - she didn't see or anything), when she got home she called me telling me to come back to my friends house she wanted to see me. I came back at my leisure (about an hour late) and we stayed up til 5 making out and stuff. I actually quite like this girl, she's pretty hot (solid objective 6.5, and imo 7 with potential to be higher) and VERY easy to get along with. Would, at first guess, seem to be quite my type.
Next morning (this morning) i wake up and realise i left something at the house, gave her a buzz and came around to get it. Sober, worried she mightn't be as hot as i thought - i popped round for a cuppa tea and to get my forgotten item...we get on great and i give her a kiss before leaving. We both obviously like each other already.
So she's out tonight and im just out at dinner with my family as she knows. Im home in bed and she's texting me telling me she wants me to "see her new dress". Im like, sorry babe but im taking it easy 2night, but definately another time. Disappointed, she replies all annoyed saying she can take a hint. 5 minutes later she rings me begging me to come up (as she waited up for me the night before). Im like....i just....cant because im at home with my parents theyd think im mad heading out at this time for no reason. I sense obviously that drinks involved and that i made such a strong impression in our first encounter(s) she got tipsy and really wanted to see me. I suppose that's the buzz about meeting someone at the beginning .
So is it spontaneous to drive up (10 miles) meet her and im sure get a bit of action (shes not a slut.....well i dont think so but ill try find out if im wrong) or do what ive done, stick to my guns and show her she can't say jump and i say how high? (im not that type of guy so no point being like that anyway.
...Ok she's clearly drunk cuz she just texted me saying how she thinks im so sweet blah blah blah and admits shes drunk lol. I like her but she's coming on a bit strong to say the least.
Now, i like a girl that doesn't waste my time and play games but obviously this is a bit overly direct, esp if she's not just a slut looking for sex (again, im pretty sure that's not her game...but time will tell
) Why is it that girls that like me REALLY like me and girls that don't, just don't. No real happy medium in my experience. Hmmm.
So, advice please....do i just play it cool and semi-offend her or go with it? What would you do in my position 2night, would you collect her with such short notice? The way i see it, i play it my way and see how it goes, but maybe some of you DJ's might play it differently at the early stages?