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Was I rejected?

Samanosuke

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I got a number from a girl last thursday. Called her today, invited her out for friday night. She said her friends anniversary was either friday or saturday and that she would have to check and I should call her back. I told her she has my number and she should call me back. Was this a rejection or what exactly was this?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Brian McGee

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lol you misunderstand. She WANTED you to call her back. When you apply for a job and make a bad impression they always say we'll call you, if you make a good impression they'll say call us back in a weeks time or whatever. Same principle. You haven't been rejected.
 

Tha Realnezz

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I sure sounds like rejection to me.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Obsidian

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rejection would be

"Oh, sorry, my cousin's friend's anniversary for buying his dog is on Friday...don't think I'll be able to make it. Oh, umm Saturday? Hmm, it'll actually be a two-day event. I'll call you if I get some free time."


No, it's quite possibly not rejection.
 

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It's called flaking and happens all the time. Don't give it any more thought. Next!
 

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No don't next!

Move to "BackBurner"!
not an outright rejection,

Get more numbers , call this one back in a week
attempt one more time,then if she flakes next.
 

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if you're not all AFC about it, there is no reason why you can't follow this up. You weren't rejected, its turns out girls actually ARE busy sometimes. I know, i know, it doesn't make sense to me either :p
 

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You shouldn't have been inviting her out for a Friday anyway, far greater chance she would have been busy then.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

MacDiddy

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This is a total rejection.. How can any of you not accept the truth for what it is. However, all is not lost. I would text her from now on. You simply did not have enough attractive powers to hold her attention. Keep working and text her as one of many potential you have going.
 
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