Was I a DJ or NOT?

[lollipop]

I met this girl on Valentines day. Everything went well. I was funny and I teased her. I was with my school buddy and she was with her girl friend. And her girl friend asked me if I was interested in a relationship with the girl I kissed lots. I said: "I don't know, I'll ask her phonenumber and take it from that." So, I kept my options open.In short I had a make out session for one night. And I asked her phonenumber, she gave me her cellular phonenumber. I also asked her homenumber, no problem.

I arranged a date, she didn't show up. She sended me messages saying she had a "serious" relationship of 2 years. I responded with: "Then you must be missing something in your relationship since you cheated him." She answered: "I don't count kissing for night as cheating." I replied REAL FUNNY: "You only fool yourself." HAHAHA!!!!

Don't worry, I don't have any contact with her anymore ever since.

The questions:
1)Was I a DJ or not?
2)If I said to her girl friend that I was interested in relationship would I have a girlfriend? Because you know what they say: a girl will not break up with someone unless they're sure they have another lover.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Makin' out with someone doesn't count as cheating, huh? I usually tell people that it anything above the waist is not cheating, but just when it comes to me.

While it has the tone of very young immature people involved, they were trying to see the card in your hand. They kind of wanted a black or white answer, to know your every move.
You did well. Sounds like an attention wh0re just trying to rationalize her behaviour and not be accountable for it.

Next time try answering their question with another question, you might say something like "why, is that an offer?". Try to get as much info from the girl (s) and disclose as little as possible. Have good comebacks that don't sound like you're avoiding the questions, yet you still have them talking and giving away their agenda.

I always think of David D's two main rules:

1. Never give a woman a straight answer, unless its "NO"

2. Never give a woman exactly what she wants, when she wants it.

 

[lollipop]

Gangster Of Love,

I didn't knew she had a relationship untill she sended me the message. I think I did ok.

 

[Dee-Zy]

I don't wanna be rude - but WHO CARES? I know you shouldn't. Why waste your time reflect'N upon if you 'were' a DJ or not. Focus on be'N a DJ right here and now.

Learn from the past yes - though in this case, there isn't much to learn about. This girl is just stupid, that's all. I know it N I'm pretty sure u know it.

If u keep on ask'N i u were a DJ or not - how do u expect to BE a DJ?


GHOST

 

[-Zero_h0uR-]

General rule of thumb:

If you have to ask if you were a DJ, you probably weren't.

Sure you did the moves a DJ would do, and you did it the way a DJ would, however, if you aren't sure if you were a DJ, then you most likely were not.

BTW, try Gangster's advice. It's good stuff.


-- Zero-