"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Was Having a conversation with a friend.

Maximummax

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on FB, she said this

I don't like american men(she is caucasian btw), they feel like doing a favor to me. or act like i owe them something.

she is single and have kids, having trouble finding a guy to date her. she is 5/10 in looks. Lives in country side.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tell her good idea, you think latin women are hotter than american women. They cook and clean, and aren't single mothers.
 

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If she want's some dude to daddy up the kid she better be the one doing "favors"... lots of em
 

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They are doing her a favor if they are even speaking to her. Shes not hot enough, young enough or child free enough to be treated any other way. She should be thankful for attention.
 

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Warrior74 said:
They are doing her a favor if they are even speaking to her. Shes not hot enough, young enough or child free enough to be treated any other way. She should be thankful for attention.
Haha truth :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is always some poor slob who will fall for that garbage. It almost happened to me twice when I was in a slump (Got laid once but hit the afterburners soon after she started making requests, she actually asked me to pay her grandmother to babysit her womb filth so we could go out :crackup: ). Recently another single mommie almost got her hooks in me for a first date, had to make up an excuse to get out of it once I came to my senses. Not only is she a single mom with 2 kids who I know nothing about, but she lives half an hour away and wants to meet me at a place where her best friend works for a drink... Sh!t test avoided. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than get involved with another single mom unless her kids are out of the house. I might have blown a chance at an easy lay but I'm over having to deal with the nice guy routine afterwords. I've jumped on the no kids or kids gone train at this point and I'm never looking back even if I miss the easy lay opportunities.
 
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