was going to lose my virginity but d1ck had other plans

[Five To One]

Well pretty much the worst thing that could of happened last night happened. The girl's mom was out of town and invited me over. We started getting into it and the clothes came off pretty quickly. I was pretty hard when I asked her if she was ready for sex for the first time. And I swear the second she said yes my d1ck went competely limp. I didnt panic and just enjoyed the naked girl for a while but after a while I called it quits.


It wasnt too embarassing, im just frustrated and a bit worried that this could be a problem for me.

I had mastrabated the day before, how much does not mastrabating...say for like a week before, help with this problem?

Am I too young to get some viagra or some other kind of pill? I dont even know where I would go to buy this stuff but willing to find out if it will get my first time over with.



The thing is I remembered reading about this when it was happening and I didnt panic and I was pretty confortable. The girl is very sexy but im not intimidated by her or worried what she will think. Even with this mindset I was not able to get up.

How many of you who had this problem the first time, got the job done the second time?

 

[Maxtro]

Well pretty much the worst thing that could of happened last night happened. The girl's mom was out of town and invited me over. We started getting into it and the clothes came off pretty quickly. I was pretty hard when I asked her if she was ready for sex for the first time. And I swear the second she said yes my d1ck went competely limp. I didnt panic and just enjoyed the naked girl for a while but after a while I called it quits.


It wasnt too embarassing, im just frustrated and a bit worried that this could be a problem for me.

I had mastrabated the day before, how much does not mastrabating...say for like a week before, help with this problem?

Am I too young to get some viagra or some other kind of pill? I dont even know where I would go to buy this stuff but willing to find out if it will get my first time over with.



The thing is I remembered reading about this when it was happening and I didnt panic and I was pretty confortable. The girl is very sexy but im not intimidated by her or worried what she will think. Even with this mindset I was not able to get up.

How many of you who had this problem the first time, got the job done the second time?

Don't worry. This kind of situation is common for many many people.

Next time you are alone with a chick and can't get it up, focus on her. Kiss her all over her body, finger her, eat her out. Make her cum. Don't worry about your dick. As soon as you get hard put on a condom and go for it.

BTW DO NOT get Viagra. You don't need it, and nobody with a healthy body should touch it. You don't want to depend on it.

Just try again.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Limp D1ck Alert!!!!

Why were you asking? Just keep turning her on until she is practically ripping your clothes off.

Don't worry about it. It happens sometimes, to most, if not all men.

Masturbating the day before has very little to do with it.

 

[Paintballguy]

It's all nerves man. Just try to be relaxed next time.

Oh yeah, and never ask a girl to have sex.

 

[FireOnTheMountain]

I've heard the same story quite a few times. It's just nerves.

 

[Drewskie]

It's called performance anxiety, happens a lot. Look it up. Best thing to do is Relax, although easier said than done. Like other poster said, focus on her 100%, if seeing her get off doesn't make you ready for action, you can always rub one out later thinking about it, and not have to worry about her going elsewhere to find sex.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Its happened to me before. It might be your mindset - thinking all over the place and not focusing on the girl. If that happens. The girl will just give me a BJ til I get hard and I'm ready to go.

 

[Five To One]

thanks for the feedback.

But like I said, I knew what was happening to me and I did focus on her for a good hour before we called it quits. It started to work but i didnt quite get there. I even told her afterword that it was called performance anxitety when she asked what had been the matter.


Shes kinda odd, ready to have sex but wasnt ready to give me head. Which is a shame because im sure that would do the trick.

Im going to invite her over this week to my house, maybe having the home field advantage will do the trick.

Im just really down right now because I could of fvcked this beautiful girl already. Ill give an update when it happens

 

[Desdinova]

Moved to AE...

How many of you who had this problem the first time, got the job done the second time?

I've had it, and sometimes the job won't get done until the third or fourth time. It's called performance anxiety and most men get it. Whatever you do, don't get frustrated with it. Remain calm about it and act as if it's perfectly normal. If she starts showing signs of LSE because of it, reassure her that ALL men go through this at one time or another and that it has nothing to do with her ability to turn you on.

 

[SmoothTalker]

I think that contrary to the stereotype that most guys last 30 seconds their first time, many people actually can't even get it in or if they do, will go for a long time before cumming their first time. Probably due to a combination of nerves and not being used to that type of stimulation.

Anyway, its just nerves man, try again later. Second time around the whole situation should be less new to you, and hopefully it will work easier. Even if you felt relaxed and don't think you were nervous, I'd be willing to bet this is all it was.

 

[dbot]

The same thing happened to me my "first time." Brought the girl over after the dance when my parents were conveniently gone, the clothes came off and the dick went limp. I didn't end up getting the chance to lose my virginity for another 2 months. So yeah, it happens to a lot of people, especially their first time.

 

[mpimpin]

My first time started off like this, the girl was really cool though and was down for watching some porn before hand so it ended up making things easier ..I mean..harder

 

[PRMoon]

Happens to me still. Sometimes i'm too drunk, sometimes i don't like the girl, sometimes i'm nervous. It just happens, and you seem to be handling it well so you shouldn't be too worried.

I agree with most of the things the other posters stated. Foreplay of some kind before, or more sexual contact on her behalf will usually get the blood flowing well enough to make you able to take care of buisness.

Don't take any drugs like the v and i'm assuming you're fairly young so don't drink either. Most important, don't dwell on the past and what could have been from the first time you guys tried to hook up. Let the past die and keep your mind on the task at hand.

 

[speakeasy]

You'll be ok. It's all in your head. I once went completely limp after putting it in. And other times I was bangin' it hard for 30 mins straight and couldn't bust. I had some issues in my head. When those issues were gone, it was all good.