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Boyos, so LA county has recently opened up strip clubs again. I was at one of my favorite joints that's been closed for well over a year. They opened again friday night and I rolled in last night.

The crowd of patrons was about half females, half male. Normally, even on a packed night, at most there'd only be about 20% females. But tonight it was packed with female patrons.

These women came here primarily for 1 thing: male attention/validation.

They know the guys at strip clubs are horny and extra desperate due to lockdown. So they came here for some quick, easy, real world validation.

The concept is this: the strippers in the club are hot, if these female patrons manage to steal attention away from the stripers then it gives them a high and a psychological win...

One particular patron was a hot, thin blonde that got up on the 2nd stage (the mini stage, not the main stage) and started dancing. The male patrons were oogling her. I decided to walk over and start throwing up some dollars... I told her to keep taking her clothing off and I'll throw more. Sure enough she continues to keep stripping until she got completely naked. Other guys rolled up and started throwing up money as well.

She must have made an easy $400 in the span of 5 minutes. You can see on her face how high she got from the validation/attention from men. Yes, the money is a plus, but more importantly that money is a measure of how much validation she accumulated (similar to likes on social media).

She was with a group of both males and females and I'm sure one of those dudes must have been her boyfriend. But did it matter to her? Did she stop for 1 minute and think how her actions might cuck him and embarrass him? Nope. To her, validation is more important than her boyfriend's dignity.

Her face was glowing from the high. The faces of the other female patrons were a mixture of envy, jealousy, admiration and inspiration - inspiration to try to emulate her by acting just as wh0rish. Which is what they did throughout the night as other women got up on the 2nd stage as well, albeit they didn't get fully naked, at most, some of them took their top off or stripped down to undergarments.

Lessons to be learnt:

1) Women crave validation, they can't survive without it. They specifically go to places where men congregate to get a piece of that validation.
2) Women compete with each other for validation
3) In pursuit of validation, women could care less if they publicly cuck and embarrass their boyfriends/partners
4) Men are fools, our validation is more valuable to women than gold and yet we give it away for free without expecting anything in return. Is it even a surprise that women don't respect men who bend over backwards to cater to them?

In a strip club, a man can learn just how valuable his attention is to women: "you want these dollars, you gotta get naked." It's a fair trade, and ironically, women actually develop more respect for you if they have to give you something in exchange for your validation.
 

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What makes you think she liked "validation" more than money? Would she have taken her clothes off in front of strangers for free? Doubtful.

Also, don't assume her boyfriend was being "cucked." Did she fvck any of the other guys at the strip club? Doubtful. Did she fvck her boyfriend that night? Maybe.

To me, strip clubs in the USA are a complete waste of time and money. I travel a lot and have been to many countries where brothels are legal. So why waste money on just looking at a girl?
 

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Boyos, so LA county has recently opened up strip clubs again. I was at one of my favorite joints that's been closed for well over a year. They opened again friday night and I rolled in last night.

The crowd of patrons was about half females, half male. Normally, even on a packed night, at most there'd only be about 20% females. But tonight it was packed with female patrons.

These women came here primarily for 1 thing: male attention/validation.

They know the guys at strip clubs are horny and extra desperate due to lockdown. So they came here for some quick, easy, real world validation.

The concept is this: the strippers in the club are hot, if these female patrons manage to steal attention away from the stripers then it gives them a high and a psychological win...

One particular patron was a hot, thin blonde that got up on the 2nd stage (the mini stage, not the main stage) and started dancing. The male patrons were oogling her. I decided to walk over and start throwing up some dollars... I told her to keep taking her clothing off and I'll throw more. Sure enough she continues to keep stripping until she got completely naked. Other guys rolled up and started throwing up money as well.

She must have made an easy $400 in the span of 5 minutes. You can see on her face how high she got from the validation/attention from men. Yes, the money is a plus, but more importantly that money is a measure of how much validation she accumulated (similar to likes on social media).

She was with a group of both males and females and I'm sure one of those dudes must have been her boyfriend. But did it matter to her? Did she stop for 1 minute and think how her actions might cuck him and embarrass him? Nope. To her, validation is more important than her boyfriend's dignity.

Her face was glowing from the high. The faces of the other female patrons were a mixture of envy, jealousy, admiration and inspiration - inspiration to try to emulate her by acting just as wh0rish. Which is what they did throughout the night as other women got up on the 2nd stage as well, albeit they didn't get fully naked, at most, some of them took their top off or stripped down to undergarments.

Lessons to be learnt:

1) Women crave validation, they can't survive without it. They specifically go to places where men congregate to get a piece of that validation.
2) Women compete with each other for validation
3) In pursuit of validation, women could care less if they publicly cuck and embarrass their boyfriends/partners
4) Men are fools, our validation is more valuable to women than gold and yet we give it away for free without expecting anything in return. Is it even a surprise that women don't respect men who bend over backwards to cater to them?

In a strip club, a man can learn just how valuable his attention is to women: "you want these dollars, you gotta get naked." It's a fair trade, and ironically, women actually develop more respect for you if they have to give you something in exchange for your validation.
Next time, go to Cambodia.
 

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I never grasped the concept of a "strip-club".

In my country you pay 70€ and the (mostly eastern European) seksworker will suck your **** and/or **** you for 30 Minutes.

I know you have laws in place that prohibit prostitution but why would you guys spend 100s of $ just to get horny?
I've never understood that. What is the value of a woman just standing there and refusing to put out?
 

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I never grasped the concept of a "strip-club".

In my country you pay 70€ and the (mostly eastern European) seksworker will suck your **** and/or **** you for 30 Minutes.

I know you have laws in place that prohibit prostitution but why would you guys spend 100s of $ just to get horny?
Because it's the best legal option.

What country do you live in?
 

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Because it's the best legal option.

What country do you live in?
This is the problem with the USA. Everything is skewed in favour of women. In the past they had to provide something to get money from men. Now they can take the money and provide nothing.

Basically anywhere in the world outside the US, you can get a lot more than just a look if you're willing to pay. As it should be.
 

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I guess it is the offline version of "OnlyFans".

Unless i am missing some important aspect about it, this seems to be a kind of simping.
That's a great way of putting it. Strip clubs were the offline OnlyFans before OnlyFans started.

Strip clubs are better than porn though. Neither is good.

I have not been to a strip club in 10+ years.
 

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That's a great way of putting it. Strip clubs were the offline OnlyFans before OnlyFans started.

Strip clubs are better than porn though. Neither is good.

I have not been to a strip club in 10+ years.
I once went to a place in Tijuana called Adele's. There they have an American style stripper lounge and there are women taking turns to put on a show. Some men were throwing money at them to get a face full of tits. But all of the women there, including the strippers, can be taken upstairs for a short time for about 50-70$.
 

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Austria, but the rule-set on prostitution is pretty much the same over most of Europe.
Lucky you.

I've been to Vienna and had fun in the laufhauses. The girls there are HB8+ (not all of them, but it doesn't take long to find one).

Vienna is my favorite city in Europe.

I always wondered why would anyone even bother to "date" with options like that.
 

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That's a great way of putting it. Strip clubs were the offline OnlyFans before OnlyFans started.

Strip clubs are better than porn though. Neither is good.

I have not been to a strip club in 10+ years.
Porn is better cause it's free. Both involve zero sex.
 

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Yeah I’m confused, is throwing your hard earned money at a sight you can download from the internet for free supposed to be a good example as an alpha male?
 

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Lucky you.

I've been to Vienna and had fun in the laufhauses. The girls there are HB8+ (not all of them, but it doesn't take long to find one).

Vienna is my favorite city in Europe.

I always wondered why would anyone even bother to "date" with options like that.
The Laufhauses in Vienna are gold. You get a great bang for the buck there and the selection of girls is really good.

Legal and widely affordable prostitution is a good thing as women dont get as much attention by simps this way, which benefits all men.

While paying a sexworker is not the same as fvcking a woman that is sexually attracted to you, it is certainly an option for days you dont want to be bothered with "dating".
 
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