“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Was at the strip club again. More life lessons, wisdom and observations to be shared.

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Lesson 1: A woman's body is her only source of power over men.

I think most guys can understand this on an intellectual level, but how many can truly grasp the concept subconsciously? Not many, I'm afraid. In the Sexual Marketplace aka the dating market, men are so desperate that now even a fat, middle-aged single mother can get attention from Chad-Lites. It's a sellers market similar to the housing market where even a rundown, busted up shack can still fetch a $400K offer.

In a strip club, it's the opposite, it's a buyer's market, only the absolute hottest girls will make any decent money (after the club takes its cut).

I was at the club again last night, and wow, some of the regular girls have let themselves go during the scamdemic. They've put on weight, haven't taken care of their skin, their hair is thinning and they must have taken up drugs/alcohol cause some of them look like they've aged 10 years.

These are the girls that would have raked in insane amounts of cash pre-scamdemic, but now, they're barely getting noticed. A new roster of younger, hotter, skankier, and hustle-minded girls have entered the game and pushing out the jaded girls from the pre-scamdemic era.

And the patrons have responded accordingly. Guys are now throwing up their money only to the hottest, skankiest and "friendliest" girls. I say "friendly" because we're all astute enough to know that the girls are just hustling for money, they're not actually trying to be our friends and they're not interested in us on a personal level. But that's okay, no harm, no foul no hate, we all respect the hustle and we respect the game. Ain't nobody in club getting their hearts broken over this.

It's an absolutely brutal Realitypill how desperate these girls can become once they can't rely on their looks to get money and validation from men.

And it's also refreshing to see that men have responded accordingly: we're the buyer, we're not going to spend time and money on an inferior product. I wish it was like this in the real world. And let's keep our hopes up that the real world will eventually catch up to the strip club world where it's a buyer's market and men have all the leverage.


Lesson 2: Women speak openly about their true nature when they're not trying to rope in a betabuxxer

I had a conversation with a dancer that I used to get with quite frequently before the shutdown. She's a retired pr0n actress. I wouldn't call her a "Pornstar" because she wasn't one of the bigger names, she's just one of the many thousands of girls in LA that got involved in pr0n because it was an easy way to make a couple thousand $$ for just a few hours of easy work (and also get plowed by dudes packing 10" c0cks)....

Sadly, she falls into the category of girls that got too comfortable during the shutdowns. She's a little bit thicker (in a good way if you're into thick girls) and has lost a little bit of her glow.

She revealed to to me that during the lockdowns that she moved back in with an old BF who's also taking care of the kid she had with another dude.

I told her straight up that this dude must be a weak man. Her exact words were: "C'mon that's not nice. I needed help and he's a good guy that I can rely on."

Did you catch that, boyos? She basically admitted that she's just using him for a place to stay and for someone to subsidize her kid she had with Chad.

She also told me she had to take a job as a receptionist in a doctors office but was also tricking on the side to make some extra money.

So basically she'd come home and her niceguy BF would kiss her on the lips/face, completely oblivious that multiple Johns were busting nuts all over her face and he's kissing their jizz.

Most men are truly pitiful. They actually believe this cope of "nice guys win in the end, because women come back to them.".... absolutely low IQ....

I'll type some more lessons up later.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I liked this. However, isn’t “hopefully real life will catch up to the strip club” the same as beta dudes th inking girls will come to see their value in the end and return to them?
 

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There are too many Incels on this forum. It’s impossible to ignore you all.
Okay, obviously my posts don't resonate with you and you don't find value in them. That's fine, I take no offense. But you're not obligated to respond either.

No need to get triggered, just press the ignore button and you won't have to see my posts.
 

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I liked this. However, isn’t “hopefully real life will catch up to the strip club” the same as beta dudes th inking girls will come to see their value in the end and return to them?
"Real life catching up to the strip clubs" = the real world becoming a buyer's market where men have all the leverage and women's egos are checked.

For the well-being of all men, let's hope this happens.
 

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"Real life catching up to the strip clubs" = the real world becoming a buyer's market where men have all the leverage and women's egos are checked.

For the well-being of all men, let's hope this happens.
Yeah but is t that the same as betas hoping a girl will one day “see the light” and return to them?
 

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Yeah but is t that the same as betas hoping a girl will one day “see the light” and return to them?
Boyo, if that's your interpretation then it's perfectly fine, I respect your opinion. I'm not interested in playing devil's advocate or trying to change anyone's mind.

My interpretation: A buyer's market puts men in an advantaged position. Men of value, men of accomplishments, men whom are MOGmaxxed and Physiquemaxxed will be able to chose a woman of equal quality. Men won't have to settle for low quality women out of desperation.
 

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The story of the former porn actress getting a beta male to do the beta bucks thing and be a cuck was an interesting story.
 

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Went to a strip club with a buddy a year or so ago. Meh. Girls were so-so looking. No booze allowed! Some stripper came on to me and offered to do ‘anything’ in the back with her for $100. I declined. In hindsight, I should have payed so my incel buddy could have gotten with her.
 

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Went to a strip club with a buddy a year or so ago. Meh. Girls were so-so looking. No booze allowed! Some stripper came on to me and offered to do ‘anything’ in the back with her for $100. I declined. In hindsight, I should have payed so my incel buddy could have gotten with her.
What city?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Lesson 1: A woman's body is her only source of power over men.

I think most guys can understand this on an intellectual level, but how many can truly grasp the concept subconsciously? Not many, I'm afraid. In the Sexual Marketplace aka the dating market, men are so desperate that now even a fat, middle-aged single mother can get attention from Chad-Lites. It's a sellers market similar to the housing market where even a rundown, busted up shack can still fetch a $400K offer.

In a strip club, it's the opposite, it's a buyer's market, only the absolute hottest girls will make any decent money (after the club takes its cut).

I was at the club again last night, and wow, some of the regular girls have let themselves go during the scamdemic. They've put on weight, haven't taken care of their skin, their hair is thinning and they must have taken up drugs/alcohol cause some of them look like they've aged 10 years.

These are the girls that would have raked in insane amounts of cash pre-scamdemic, but now, they're barely getting noticed. A new roster of younger, hotter, skankier, and hustle-minded girls have entered the game and pushing out the jaded girls from the pre-scamdemic era.

And the patrons have responded accordingly. Guys are now throwing up their money only to the hottest, skankiest and "friendliest" girls. I say "friendly" because we're all astute enough to know that the girls are just hustling for money, they're not actually trying to be our friends and they're not interested in us on a personal level. But that's okay, no harm, no foul no hate, we all respect the hustle and we respect the game. Ain't nobody in club getting their hearts broken over this.

It's an absolutely brutal Realitypill how desperate these girls can become once they can't rely on their looks to get money and validation from men.

And it's also refreshing to see that men have responded accordingly: we're the buyer, we're not going to spend time and money on an inferior product. I wish it was like this in the real world. And let's keep our hopes up that the real world will eventually catch up to the strip club world where it's a buyer's market and men have all the leverage.
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The funny thing is that A couple years back I would end up in a strip club most of the times with my friends , as clubs were closing at 2 , while the strip clubs were opened till way later

The strippers who were making money were actually the average ones , not the good looking ones

the reason of this was that guys were too scared to approach them , while the average ones would approach the guys

this was quite an eyes opening experience on how lame guys can be
 

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A new roster of younger, hotter, skankier, and hustle-minded girls have entered the game and pushing out the jaded girls from the pre-scamdemic era.

And the patrons have responded accordingly. Guys are now throwing up their money only to the hottest, skankiest and "friendliest" girls. I say "friendly" because we're all astute enough to know that the girls are just hustling for money, they're not actually trying to be our friends and they're not interested in us on a personal level. But that's okay, no harm, no foul no hate, we all respect the hustle and we respect the game. Ain't nobody in club getting their hearts broken over this.
I'd only been a regular patron of a strip joint over a few years back when I was living in Colorado, and it was interesting to see the ebb & flow of the talent. It only takes a few really nice looking new ones to make a serious dent in the income-capacity of the legacy staff. This club in Colorado had 5 stages, so on Th-F-Sa, I was usually able to find a nice one dancing somewhere. This was a club where for a tip, the gals would come off the stage and give the tipper a short lap dance, which was a great way to tell if a certain gal could be trusted to give me a happy ending in the private dance area. :cool: I'm a cheapskate, but the dollar bills were coming out of my wallet at that place.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The funny thing is that A couple years back I would end up in a strip club most of the times with my friends , as clubs were closing at 2 , while the strip clubs were opened till way later

The strippers who were making money were actually the average ones , not the good looking ones

the reason of this was that guys were too scared to approach them , while the average ones would approach the guys

this was quite an eyes opening experience on how lame guys can be
At a strip joint, I have no problem going up to the one I find the sexiest. I would even go so far as to say that it is good PUA therapy to go to a strip joint just so the PUA can rid himself of the fear that is usually associated with going after a hot chick.
 

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Went to a strip club with a buddy a year or so ago. Meh. Girls were so-so looking. No booze allowed!
I prefer going to no-booze places; typically, the no-booze places are much more amenable to not only full nudity, but also have a high coefficient of friction. :cool:
 

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The funny thing is that A couple years back I would end up in a strip club most of the times with my friends , as clubs were closing at 2 , while the strip clubs were opened till way later

The strippers who were making money were actually the average ones , not the good looking ones

the reason of this was that guys were too scared to approach them , while the average ones would approach the guys

this was quite an eyes opening experience on how lame guys can be

Yes, that phenomena did happen quite a bit a few years ago. The super hot girls had major attitudes and would usually try to upsell the guys or tip monger or give "air dances".

When a man goes into a strip club, he's spending his money and just wants to have a good time. Why would a man spend money on a 10/10 superhot playboy bunny blonde who will probably just give him a bad attitude when he can spend money on a 7/10 and get a better experience? Do looks matter? Yes, ideally we'd want the 10/10.....but in the dark lighting of a club with music blasting and testosterone pumping, a 7/10 at a discounted price with a great attitude is good enough.

The girls in the club know they have to compete with each other for a limited number of guys who have disposable income to spend, so a 7/10 knows she has to go the extra mile to earn while the 10/10 thinks she can just sit back and wait for the high-rollers to approach her.

But that dynamic has changed. In today's economic climate, after 1 year of lockdown and the smaller pool of men with disposable income, the hot 10/10 playboy bunny blonde knows she's gotta check her attitude and hustle for money.

Men have responded accordingly, we're now favoring the 10/10 hottie over the average girls because they both have positive attitudes now.
 

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Lesson 1: A woman's body is her only source of power over men.

I think most guys can understand this on an intellectual level, but how many can truly grasp the concept subconsciously? Not many, I'm afraid. In the Sexual Marketplace aka the dating market, men are so desperate that now even a fat, middle-aged single mother can get attention from Chad-Lites. It's a sellers market similar to the housing market where even a rundown, busted up shack can still fetch a $400K offer.

In a strip club, it's the opposite, it's a buyer's market, only the absolute hottest girls will make any decent money (after the club takes its cut).

I was at the club again last night, and wow, some of the regular girls have let themselves go during the scamdemic. They've put on weight, haven't taken care of their skin, their hair is thinning and they must have taken up drugs/alcohol cause some of them look like they've aged 10 years.

These are the girls that would have raked in insane amounts of cash pre-scamdemic, but now, they're barely getting noticed. A new roster of younger, hotter, skankier, and hustle-minded girls have entered the game and pushing out the jaded girls from the pre-scamdemic era.

And the patrons have responded accordingly. Guys are now throwing up their money only to the hottest, skankiest and "friendliest" girls. I say "friendly" because we're all astute enough to know that the girls are just hustling for money, they're not actually trying to be our friends and they're not interested in us on a personal level. But that's okay, no harm, no foul no hate, we all respect the hustle and we respect the game. Ain't nobody in club getting their hearts broken over this.

It's an absolutely brutal Realitypill how desperate these girls can become once they can't rely on their looks to get money and validation from men.

And it's also refreshing to see that men have responded accordingly: we're the buyer, we're not going to spend time and money on an inferior product. I wish it was like this in the real world. And let's keep our hopes up that the real world will eventually catch up to the strip club world where it's a buyer's market and men have all the leverage.


Lesson 2: Women speak openly about their true nature when they're not trying to rope in a betabuxxer

I had a conversation with a dancer that I used to get with quite frequently before the shutdown. She's a retired pr0n actress. I wouldn't call her a "Pornstar" because she wasn't one of the bigger names, she's just one of the many thousands of girls in LA that got involved in pr0n because it was an easy way to make a couple thousand $$ for just a few hours of easy work (and also get plowed by dudes packing 10" c0cks)....

Sadly, she falls into the category of girls that got too comfortable during the shutdowns. She's a little bit thicker (in a good way if you're into thick girls) and has lost a little bit of her glow.

She revealed to to me that during the lockdowns that she moved back in with an old BF who's also taking care of the kid she had with another dude.

I told her straight up that this dude must be a weak man. Her exact words were: "C'mon that's not nice. I needed help and he's a good guy that I can rely on."

Did you catch that, boyos? She basically admitted that she's just using him for a place to stay and for someone to subsidize her kid she had with Chad.

She also told me she had to take a job as a receptionist in a doctors office but was also tricking on the side to make some extra money.

So basically she'd come home and her niceguy BF would kiss her on the lips/face, completely oblivious that multiple Johns were busting nuts all over her face and he's kissing their jizz.

Most men are truly pitiful. They actually believe this cope of "nice guys win in the end, because women come back to them.".... absolutely low IQ....

I'll type some more lessons up later.
Like OLD, I stay away from strip clubs as they carry the same underlying notion/concept. Btw no judgment here on my part. And it is a great reminder to men but you have to realize that you find what you are looking for (subconsciously).

You can't expect quality products at the 99c store. If that makes any sense.

Modern Man Advice
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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