Was anyones 1st time as bad as mine??

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Fash

Senior Don Juan

Apr 20, 2006

The key is not to worry about it. I've had this problem a couple of times before too. Both times have been when I have been about to nail a REALLY REALLY stunning HB. I'm talking HB9.5+

After spending some time thinking about it, it all really comes down to stress levels. You HAVE to relax! The more your worry about your floppy chappy the more floppy it will get!

Just relax, and don't think about the erection. Just enjoy her!

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.