"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Was America better off when women were expected to talk, dress and act like ladies?

Kevin Feng

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"In order to get the woman of your dreams, you need to be the man of hers"

-Asian Playboy

It's not the "wife", it's the "woman", I think people's wants/needs have changed. You can't say it's better or worse, it's just different.

I think that society has changed a lot, even in the last decade, in just the last decade, we never had facebook, cell phones, twitter, myspace, etc etc.

Communication has been made so much easier and it's become a lot easier for both men and women to satisfy their needs as a result of it.

Society is just different nowadays, I feel generally speaking that people don't seek that nice house, nice wife and the picket fence. People want the fancy cars, fancy homes, and the hot ass wife. I feel that kids are more of a liability nowadays.

Maybe I've been stuck in hollywood too long, but that's my perception at this point.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hell yes it was! Bring back hyper-femininity and drop the hyper-feminism.
 

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Daydream Engineer said:
You all are wrong, the 1880s was the time when women where the most funnest, back then everyone was wild and free.
Drugs were legal back then too. Not to say that society is perfect, but people generally believed in individual rights and shunned the Nazi Police State we live in today.
 
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