WhiskeyTango
Don Juan
My company has asked me if I would like to work in Warsaw for a couple of months. Does anyone know what it is like there? American friendly? How are the women there?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Warsaw, Poland
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Only passed through Poland... Never stayed there so I am not one to comment much. However, I cannot imagine the women in Poland being worse than the women in the US. The women in the US have the highest obesity rate of ANY country. The entitlement mentality of women from the US is LEGENDARY, even my family back in Serbia view American women as being mostly entitled princesses.
Most people in Eurpoe speak English anyway. You will be fine in that respect.