WhiskeyTango
Don Juan
My company has asked me if I would like to work in Warsaw for a couple of months. Does anyone know what it is like there? American friendly? How are the women there?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Warsaw, Poland
- Thread starter WhiskeyTango
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Only passed through Poland... Never stayed there so I am not one to comment much. However, I cannot imagine the women in Poland being worse than the women in the US. The women in the US have the highest obesity rate of ANY country. The entitlement mentality of women from the US is LEGENDARY, even my family back in Serbia view American women as being mostly entitled princesses.
Most people in Eurpoe speak English anyway. You will be fine in that respect.