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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Warped Tour -- Helpp

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So I've been talking with this chick for a while and she is going with a group of people to Warped Tour and told me I should come. So even though I don't know that many of the bands i'm going to go and was planning on taking my friend with me. the girl has told me she likes me but is reluctant to get in a relationship so we're just gonna start hanging out and see how it goes. anyway my friend bailed on me but i think i found another one to go.

i was hoping to get some tips from you guys about how to use KINO and any other things you can think of. basically its an ALL day event so I have tons of time and she'll be there with a bunch of friends so I plan on winning them all over and making them love me. I'm pretty funny so it usually isn't a problem. i just was hoping to get some examples of good easy ways to use KINO, specific things at a concert that work, and things to avoid etc...

Also if anyone has gone to warped tour and can help me out on how to fit in that'd be great. the girl is the farthest looking thing from looking emo so I don't want to go all out but I want to kind of look like I belong a bit or have some peacocking or something.

any help is GREATLY appreciated!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't bother fitting in.

Just enjoy the moment, the tour, and stay positive throughout.

Since there'll be loud, live performances, this is GREAT opportunity to lean close into her ear and talk to her -- but do so moderately. This can help heighten intimacy.

Also, don't talk about having a relationship. Just have fun with her. Whatever happens, happens. When she's really peaking in excitement (when her favorite band/singer comes on,) grab her hand, throw it up and tell her to "make some noise!"

Again, just HAVE FUN. Sneak a small massage in when a boring band or one that she's disinterested in comes on. Tell her your hands 'can also musically fulfill her.'

That's all for now, let me know how things go.
 
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Awesome dude, that helps a lot! I'll be sure to try all that out, and definitely will post back and let you know how it went.

One other quick question, she keeps IM'ing me on facebook and then tells me to text her. should I text her? the past two times I haven't, or if i did it wasnt for like 10 hours, but i also dont want her to think im completely ignoring her. any tips on that?
 
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