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[Julian]

Lets say some guy who you know your current LTR GF banged in her past likes her instagram photo? She doesn't follow him but he follows her and she hasnt blocked him.

Is this sloot behavior?

Im getting out of touch with social media. Personally I dont like it at all and I know if things were reversed she would be pissed.

Honestly I dont want to waste my time monitoring her social media and thinking whos liking her stuff blablabla.

What say you bros?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lets say some guy who you know your current LTR GF banged in her past likes her instagram photo? She doesn't follow him but he follows her and she hasnt blocked him.

Is this sloot behavior?

Im getting out of touch with social media. Personally I dont like it at all and I know if things were reversed she would be pissed.

Honestly I dont want to waste my time monitoring her social media and thinking whos liking her stuff blablabla.

What say you bros?

Most of that stuff is dreamland and means nothing to them. They get validation from dozens to hundreds and might have shagged or be shagging .1% of them. 99% of them they will never meet in person.

It's like a video game to these attention wh0res to get attention.

 

[Serenity]

If that is sloot behavior? No, he is the one following and liking not her. If she followed him and liked his stuff it would be a different story as that would be something active and willful. But based on the information you give she's passive, doesn't do anything regarding him and for all you know she doesn't even give a sh!t about him.

If you try to do anything about this you have a high risk of coming off as jealous, weak and threatened by this other guy. So I'd say just let it go and work on being the better man, make sure she will want to choose you over him.

 

[RangerMIke]

I hope this doesn't turn into yet another debate about 'boundaries', but setting boundaries really does nothing except maybe giving you a false sense of security and tells her what she has to hid from you. I would much rather have no rules, let her do whatever the fvck she wants, then if she takes that into a direction you don't like just walk away and go get other women. Why lay your cards on the table, let her wonder what you would do. Fact is she'll test you to see how far she can push you anyway... if she likes you... so she will learn though doing what you will put up with, this BTW is much more fun for her then you just laying out what you expect... boring.

Anyway, back on topic..... Who cares what she does on social media... there are tons of weak dudes out their that think playing digital footsy through social media is the way to get women... who cares? They are no threat to a DJ.

 

[Julian]

I just came to realizations. Obviously I am so interested in this because I have put a vest interest into this relationship. And yes it is the same nutter in the above thread. The thing is she has completely did a 180 and been on her best behavior, making proactive strides (she admitted to realizing she is crazy) and has been doing well. With that being said I know that I myself have some internal issues to get over (dont we all).

Anyway I can be a prideful person, and to me its not so much im worried about her leaving me for this dude but i just feel DISRESPECTED that she is so passive. It pisses me off there is a guy (or a few guys) that she opened herself to, emotionally/physically blabla and im supposed to treat this girl like my lil princess knowing she has been defiled in the past LOL. I told her look im not mad at you, its our world cant expect a virgin, just a used car with not too much mileage. She didnt take too kindly to that comment hahaha but the point is I dont like the idea there is some dude out there she let hit and he is liking her photo's. It feels like there is an unclosed connection there.

Now ...in her life shes smashed half a dozen guys, not too horrible right...my body count is much much higher, over ten fold. The difference is I have shielded her from my past so as to avoid drama/hurting her/no good can come from it. I stay off social media and honestly I wouldnt want some chicks Ive smashed liking my stuff knowing it migh cause an issue in my relationship.

Oh yeah and did I mention how my gf said "well why did you go snooping?" As if IM the one to blame LOL. man fk this

 

[Glumix]

I can be a prideful person

Don't you confuse pride with narcissism?

 

[wifehunter]

Thanks for the warning! LOL!

 

[Bible_Belt]

The last time my gf had a birthday, she mention that something like 80 people wished her happy birthday on facebook. I told her it's the same as a facebook "like" - if it comes from a guy who isn't a relative, it means "I want to fvck you." She acted surprised, then started going through the list..."yeah.....yeah....ok, him too.....ok I guess he does too..." It is a very accurate rule.

I'm not saying social media is evil, just don't be clueless about what is going on here. The reason a man talks to a woman is that he wants to fvck her, whether it is in person or over the Internet.

 

[zinc4]

Give a girl an inch and she will take a mile...

Some nations force their women to cloak their full bodies except faces in full clothing for good reason.

To answer your question, it wouldn't be acceptable for a girl I was in a serious relationship with. Id happily rather be single.

If it's just a girl u are banging...then who cares tell her the more the merrier.