"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warning about parties

It's-Me

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Just been to the worst party in my life yesterday. It was fvcking chaos. I got my iPhone stolen (700$ gone), had to wait for about 1 hour and a half for my coat and I was rejected by most girls because they didn't want to dance (I almost always pull at parties, but not this one...)

I would like to share with you guys some precautions before going to parties:

Analyze the party through a logical point of view. Where is the party at? How safe is it? Is there security? Is it open to anyone? Well in my case, it was a hotel party with security and all, but there was something wrong. People could buy tickets at the door and there was actually a lot around 18 years old. Also, one of the people organizing pulled out. Also, the room was for about 400 people maximum and said they would let in more than 500 people. It was also far away and in a city with lots of gangs.

Stay with friends, or at least people. I was in a corner alone and that's when he had the chance to take from my hands. I wasn't expecting it obviously, so if you do so, at least expect it and look out.

Carry around the less valuables possible. Don't need to explain this one...

You live and learn, but there's some things can be prevented. Just looking out for you guys and sharing my experiences.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desert Fox

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Thanks for the tips bro. I remember I had my goddamn COAT stolen one time. Fvckin dead of winter...seriously who the fvck steals a sh1tty winter coat all neon orange with those fluorescent tags so they can find my body if I die on a mountain. who does that sh1t?!?! damn :mad:
 

War Against Betaism

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Half of the parties I've been to end up in drama with either a drunk girl and drunk guy hooking up and their girlfriend/boyfriend getting pissed, some stupid clique/gang rivalry, etc. I never go to a party unless I go with three or more people, or if I know most of the people going.
 

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I had a bottle of Vodka stolen and all my cigarettes, always keep an eye on everything, even if you are drunk
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's-Me

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Desert Fox said:
Thanks for the tips bro. I remember I had my goddamn COAT stolen one time. Fvckin dead of winter...seriously who the fvck steals a sh1tty winter coat all neon orange with those fluorescent tags so they can find my body if I die on a mountain. who does that sh1t?!?! damn :mad:
Lots of coats stolen at that party too. They all gave us tickets for our coats and they dropped all the ****ing tickets on the floor because they was too many coats in such a small room, so we all had to go get our coats one by one. It was chaos.

Honestly, it takes a smart person to organize a party. And the ticket system just isn't that great because there's always coats getting stolen, or if you lose your ticket. They should come up with something better... Oh well, stupid people.

Analyzeit said:
I had a bottle of Vodka stolen and all my cigarettes, always keep an eye on everything, even if you are drunk
I agree, but this is a 655$ phone that I got stolen. I mean a bottle of vodka, doesn't come close to that. Still, it's a valuable item.
 

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It's-Me said:
Just been to the worst party in my life yesterday. It was fvcking chaos. I got my iPhone stolen (700$ gone), had to wait for about 1 hour and a half for my coat and I was rejected by most girls because they didn't want to dance (I almost always pull at parties, but not this one...)

I would like to share with you guys some precautions before going to parties:

Analyze the party through a logical point of view. Where is the party at? How safe is it? Is there security? Is it open to anyone? Well in my case, it was a hotel party with security and all, but there was something wrong. People could buy tickets at the door and there was actually a lot around 18 years old. Also, one of the people organizing pulled out. Also, the room was for about 400 people maximum and said they would let in more than 500 people. It was also far away and in a city with lots of gangs.

Stay with friends, or at least people. I was in a corner alone and that's when he had the chance to take from my hands. I wasn't expecting it obviously, so if you do so, at least expect it and look out.

Carry around the less valuables possible. Don't need to explain this one...

You live and learn, but there's some things can be prevented. Just looking out for you guys and sharing my experiences.
How'd he steal it? Just snatched it from in front of your face and ran?
 

Analyzeit

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Lol yeah man you gotta take better care of your stuff,

na it just falls out of your pocket, or you put it somewhere and it get stolen anything or everything so really it is it-mes fault well 50% unless he did just grab it and run



....Im missing my vodka and cigarettes right now lol
 

It's-Me

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Juice09 said:
How'd he steal it? Just snatched it from in front of your face and ran?
I was in a corner on the phone because the music was loud. Than the black guy puts his hand on the phone. I pulled on it, but he looked like he was over 18 and he was much taller than me (about 6 feet). I called security and I told other black people about it as soon as he took it and they all went outside and there was a gang fight.

There was 2 black gangs there and I had told the other gang that one gang had stole my phone and they wanted to get it back for me. They had pocket knifes and the cops came. It wasn't worth risking my life for an iPhone so I didn't join in.

Anyways, the guy can't do anything with my phone. I have a passcode on it and when I called him to give it back to me, he ordered me to give him the passcode hahahah (cause I would really give it to him...). He can't use my phone and I blocked the line, so he can't make any calls or text anyways. He's gonna have a hard time selling it/using it. I bet he doesn't even know what a SIM card is or how the iPhone works...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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eaglez1177

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It's-Me said:
Just been to the worst party in my life yesterday. It was fvcking chaos. I got my iPhone stolen (700$ gone), had to wait for about 1 hour and a half for my coat and I was rejected by most girls because they didn't want to dance (I almost always pull at parties, but not this one...)

I would like to share with you guys some precautions before going to parties:

Analyze the party through a logical point of view. Where is the party at? How safe is it? Is there security? Is it open to anyone? Well in my case, it was a hotel party with security and all, but there was something wrong. People could buy tickets at the door and there was actually a lot around 18 years old. Also, one of the people organizing pulled out. Also, the room was for about 400 people maximum and said they would let in more than 500 people. It was also far away and in a city with lots of gangs.

Stay with friends, or at least people. I was in a corner alone and that's when he had the chance to take from my hands. I wasn't expecting it obviously, so if you do so, at least expect it and look out.

Carry around the less valuables possible. Don't need to explain this one...

You live and learn, but there's some things can be prevented. Just looking out for you guys and sharing my experiences.
First off, your in highschool (im guessing), so what the hell were you doing at hotel party in some city with gangs? Really dumb move on your part by going there.

Keep in mind everyone, this is NOT the average highschool party at all.
 

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For real, this is more a lesson to evaluate your surroundings. Generally speaking holding a valuable out where someone can grab it at a party filled with strangers and apparently gangs, is not a smart move ;) . I feel for you though OP.

Generally, if you go to a ghetto/projects/etc. either don't bring anything you'd be too sad to lose, or be prepared to **** people up to keep it. Or keep it hidden.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
First off, your in highschool (im guessing), so what the hell were you doing at hotel party in some city with gangs? Really dumb move on your part by going there.

Keep in mind everyone, this is NOT the average highschool party at all.
I know it's not your average high school party... It's more house parties in high school and there's people who go there and steal people's things from the house (this girl I know got her iPod Touch and Xbox stolen recently). Some guy I know just goes to house parties to steal things.

intrextrovert said:
For real, this is more a lesson to evaluate your surroundings. Generally speaking holding a valuable out where someone can grab it at a party filled with strangers and apparently gangs, is not a smart move ;) . I feel for you though OP.

Generally, if you go to a ghetto/projects/etc. either don't bring anything you'd be too sad to lose, or be prepared to **** people up to keep it. Or keep it hidden.
I understand man, but it was still a 5 star hotel.
 

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A five star hotel? I HIGHLY doubt that. This seems more like one of those ****ty hotels located in a crappy neighborhood. A five star hotel would never allow such craziness to go on, not to mention that they wouldnt be located around a bunch of gangs, nor would they let the whole coat fiasco and security fiasco occur.
 

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This is why id never have a party at my house.....ever.
To much **** can be stolen
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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when i was a teenager, i once had an earring stolen out of my ear at a party, when i was intoxicated.
 
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