"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warming a girl up - roleplaying etc

thedol

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Ok so when you get with a girl, instead of going straight into sex there is some ways to really warm them up that get them more excited and make ofr fun situations where they can't control themselves

I don't know what others do here but I'm seeing a trend in my last experiences - I always start with a lot of making out and just moving around the next area and whenever I get kind of dominant...only in the making out phase as in pin her hands down and make out, I've noticed this gets them breathing really heavily and they just...will up everything lol

Anyone have any specific tips to really get them going crazy - purely in the making out phase or warming up phase? To get a girl really in the mood like..just rip my clothes off ;p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SandHawk

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Pinning the girls down is pretty much a good move. Most girls like it when the male is dominant like that. You could take a bit more control and use 1 hand to hold their hands behind their back and use your free hand to play around in their hair and abruptly grab it and pull their head back.

Make sure you grab their hair near the BASE(close to the skin). This way it won't be painful to them and gives you control on how much kissing they can do. Play a bit with it, pull their heads back, or just enough back so you can kiss her lips only. 9/10 girls love this.
 

Cinamon

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Having my hair played with as i feel his warm breath caress my neck :)

You cant go wrong with accidentally on purpose brushing her nipples... i love that.
 

thedol

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Haha SeaHawk - I did the grabbing the hair and she loved it - I don't usually do **** like that but it was fun and she was totally feeling it - it brought out this ****ed up aggressive side in her too which I loved ;p
 
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