"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Warm-down not effective - tips

Oscar Wilde

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Hey,

My quads are killing after a session of squats and deads (amongst others). I did a 15 min warm up, and same warm down (lot of time during lunch!), but still have a lot of acid in there & makes walking downstairs a pain!

Can anyone recommend tips or techniques for quick and effective warm-downs?

TIA,
Oscar.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Metaphor

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My tip is....never ever do squats and deadlifts on the same day.
 

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I do squats and deads on the same day and I love it.

For soreness:

1) Stretch

2) Drink Lots of water

3) Take your vitamin supplements

4) If 1-3 don't get it done and you need extreme measures, the next day you can ice the muscle down, then do an intense cardio session.
 

Oscar Wilde

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I do 1 and 2 lots, believe me :)

As for the vitamin suppliments - we outside America have found a new supply of vitamins - cheap and very effective! I'm surprised you guys hadn't heard of vegetables yet! ;)

I guess I just need to work more on the stretching!

Osc.
 

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A harmless megadose of vitamin c should help. (like more than a gram a day)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Like my uncle Sal "The Bettin' Man" used to say...

Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
I guess I just need to work more on the stretching!
... "If I were a bettin' man, that's where I'd put my money."

In my experience, over-soreness like that is almost always alleviated by more pre- and post-workout stretching. This isn't to say that the general burn you get after working out will go away, but painful soreness is almost a thing of the past for me when I stretch more.
 

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the most sensible thing to do would be to increase your energy exertion before working out, and limit the stretching to after the workout, but i'd make sure to do more like 20 minutes light to medium cadio/warmup/down to help rid the muscles of pooled blood. also, try taking ten deep breaths once your done warming down, a good ratio to use is 1 to 4 to 2, as in however long you inhale, hold it for four times that, and exhale for twice as long. this should help to stimulate lymphatic removal of lactic acid
 
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