DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
Lets see if I can lay my thoughts down properly and project what I mean to get across here.
I have been in 2 LTRs prior to my current one. The thing that bothers me the most is I really look back and cant think of what i learned from both of those time consuming commitments. If I cant take away any learning experiences then how do you grow? But moving to the present, i am in a LTR and my girlfriend currently of almost 1 year is more beautiful than the previous two combined. But with all relationships comes the portion where thigns get a bit shakey. And to avoid how my other LTRs have ended up, i want to step back and look at what I may be doing right and wrong.
My current gf is starting to complain all the time that i drink to much, smoke to much, dont do anything and she does everything. Now i didnt pay much attention to this at first, but its starting to get a bit repititous.
She does things that irritate the hell out of me. One day shes affectionate. The next day I may try to show some affection and she doesnt respond. Shes one of those girls that others would consider a B**ch.
Besided her beauty, and the fact that shes amazing in bed, theres alot that i dont get from her. If i had a long day at work and ask for a backrub, she comes up with some excuse. but i can rub her down for 1 hour and get tired, and shes ready to complain. I do things that i regret, like let her get to me emotionally and i start to argue back with her over the stupidest things.
I am not saying my relationship is horrible. We never argue about Large things or honesty or trust, but she knows how to get to me with the little stuff. She knows what buttons to push and jumps up and down on them when she finds them.
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I have been in 2 LTRs prior to my current one. The thing that bothers me the most is I really look back and cant think of what i learned from both of those time consuming commitments. If I cant take away any learning experiences then how do you grow? But moving to the present, i am in a LTR and my girlfriend currently of almost 1 year is more beautiful than the previous two combined. But with all relationships comes the portion where thigns get a bit shakey. And to avoid how my other LTRs have ended up, i want to step back and look at what I may be doing right and wrong.
My current gf is starting to complain all the time that i drink to much, smoke to much, dont do anything and she does everything. Now i didnt pay much attention to this at first, but its starting to get a bit repititous.
She does things that irritate the hell out of me. One day shes affectionate. The next day I may try to show some affection and she doesnt respond. Shes one of those girls that others would consider a B**ch.
Besided her beauty, and the fact that shes amazing in bed, theres alot that i dont get from her. If i had a long day at work and ask for a backrub, she comes up with some excuse. but i can rub her down for 1 hour and get tired, and shes ready to complain. I do things that i regret, like let her get to me emotionally and i start to argue back with her over the stupidest things.
I am not saying my relationship is horrible. We never argue about Large things or honesty or trust, but she knows how to get to me with the little stuff. She knows what buttons to push and jumps up and down on them when she finds them.
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