"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wanting To Move Overseas...

ManUnited01

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I have a girlfriend who I've been with for a year and a half, we are currently living together. I am wanting to move overseas at the start of 2013, but I want to go alone...

How do I break this to my girlfriend???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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comic_relief

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good luck with that

- comic_relief
 

Tesl

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I don't really want to help you because I hate your username so much, but I think you need to just get some balls and break it off.

It sucks, will hurt you both and is totally no fun. Doesn't sound like you have much choice though.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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ManUnited01 said:
I am wanting to move overseas at the start of 2013,
2013 is a ways to go. No reason to break the news to her a year and a half in advance.
 

Tesl

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
2013 is a ways to go. No reason to break the news to her a year and a half in advance.
Actually good point, I missed that. There's a good chance the relationship won't even last that long anyway.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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