"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a girlfriend who I've been with for a year and a half, we are currently living together. I am wanting to move overseas at the start of 2013, but I want to go alone...

How do I break this to my girlfriend???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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good luck with that

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I don't really want to help you because I hate your username so much, but I think you need to just get some balls and break it off.

It sucks, will hurt you both and is totally no fun. Doesn't sound like you have much choice though.
 
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ManUnited01 said:
I am wanting to move overseas at the start of 2013,
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2013 is a ways to go. No reason to break the news to her a year and a half in advance.
 
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Tesl

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
2013 is a ways to go. No reason to break the news to her a year and a half in advance.
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Actually good point, I missed that. There's a good chance the relationship won't even last that long anyway.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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