wanting to be a DJ

[quest]

hey guys. i wanna learn to be a dj. posted about it yesterday, got no replies. thats cool. actually didn't really post a question so i spose thats why. i think i'll just lurk around here abit until i can give some real info or have a real problem.

but i'm a little confused about some of the lingo used around here..

i picked up the LJBF and DJ etc.

but theres alot of stuff i havent figured out.
whats this kino? for example. is there anywhere with DJ lingo breifly explained?

aside from that. i'm wondering what are realistic goals for my first year of DJing.. well attempted DJing. this year, so far this year, i've slept with three girls. a 9 (was a girlfriend at the time) a 6 (was a skank) and a 7 (a friend who i didn't like, but liked me and i got drunk and ****ed). picked up about 20 girls over the year at clubs/parties (never picked up anywhere in the day time). took probably only 3 girls on dates. a 9 (the girlfreind) an 8.5 (i stuffed up by being way to AFC like) and another 8.5 (again, WAY to AFC).

over the next year i'd like to become a DJ, don't care to increase my ammount of picking up girls. i want to increase the average from probably a 6-7 to an 8-9 and i want to lay atleast 8 girls. also, i'd really like to meet some girls in the daytime.

is this realistic? any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
(also, don't forget about the lingo problem!)

thanks heaps guys.

 

[Walden]

Having well defined goals helps , and yes that goal is realistic , just so long as you go out and DJ rather than hanging out here typing.

 

[usdaprime]

whats this kino? touching

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Don't stress it or try to hard, that is important. Goals are good too.. Don Joan is something you cannot force yourself to become though because if you do it will be fake and that'll most likely end in a crash and burn situation. Important thing is to progress naturally (via intense training if you wish) but progress and make sure the clothes fit and are you aka Know thyself.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

kino - short for the medical definition for touch kinesthetics - mispellled ?

nonetheless bro ur setting up yourself for a fall or at least a disease if not somebody's baby daddy dj'ing is well an attitude moreso than a philosophy - but it seems the objective is to get laid from what i hear on this site - which is the wrong focus!!!

to become a dj is to become a real MAN that doesnt bow down to the artificial and manipulative wants of his female counterpart - read the dj bible b4 u go further!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
kino - short for the medical definition for touch kinesthetics - mispellled ?

nonetheless bro ur setting up yourself for a fall or at least a disease if not somebody's baby daddy dj'ing is well an attitude moreso than a philosophy - but it seems the objective is to get laid from what i hear on this site - which is the wrong focus!!!

to become a dj is to become a real MAN that doesnt bow down to the artificial and manipulative wants of his female counterpart - read the dj bible b4 u go further!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't agree. Not bowing down to artificial and manipulative wants of females?? Of course you aren't supposed to be *****slapped but Don Joan is not about womenizing, it's about being yourself and having control.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover

nonetheless bro ur setting up yourself for a fall or at least a disease if not somebody's baby daddy dj'ing is well an attitude moreso than a philosophy - but it seems the objective is to get laid from what i hear on this site - which is the wrong focus!!!

thanks for the advice PRL. while my goals are lays, that isn't really all i'm after. i want to go on a journey of self improvement. i've got mates who have been stagnant for years, not improving there mind, body or anything else.
once school is finished for the year (end of this week) i'm getting back into gym, and after summer ends (i'm australian) i'm quiting my job as they require too many hours from me, and i don't have much time for self improvement. its about setting myself up for the future really. right now, i have an exellent personality, quick witted, trustworthy, reliable etc. which makes me an ideal AFC. confidence isn't a major problem. but its definently not a strong point. i'm not confident enough to start conversations with anyone any of the time. sometimes i can. once in a conversation, i'm fine, i don't sit there cowering.
my goals in self improvement is - getting myself into university, improving my body, improving my face (as much as i can), improving my confidence.
i think that these factors will all help me to gain employment after university as combined they should make me more charismatic, which should lead to promotions etc.
i want to be successful in life. i want a well paid job, a good looking wife who i trust and get along with.

confidence comes when you succeed in your goals? correct? i hope so. sports/school/music can all create confidence. being more successful with the girls will also bring extra confidence. right now, i don't care too much if i have sex often. as i havent had alot of it, i don't really miss it, because i've never had it regularly. i see it as more of a status thing. my mates will think more highly of me, they'll see me as "the man" if i'm more successful with the women. which in turn will get more girls as i'd be admired by my friends rather then doing the admiration.

 

[MVPlaya]

More important than setting goals is setting gradual deadlines. When you don't have a dead-line you can keep postponing the parts that scare you so be sure that you have a definite date for certain accomplishments... sign up for MotU's tentative Sex Boot Camp, it should go about the same things.

 

[quest]

yeah i'm a bit scared about the whole boot camp.. i read through the start. stopped when i got to the first weeks exercise cause i got exams.. so i'll start at the end of this week.
i'm not sure what the boot camp involves. but i'm scared.. although over comming those fears is what self improvement is about right?
whats the deal with signing up? i was planning on just kinda doing it.

i've been reading the articles for a couple of weeks before coming onto the board and i think i've learnt quite a bit.

my female situation right now is as follows.

girl one, met her and kissed her same night, i introduced myself and all, sealed the deal myself. i was happy to get that pickup. however, the way i started the conversation, i was drunk and mistook her for someone else so it was easy to talk to her. saw her on friday night at a club, didn't pursue her any further as her friend was telling me that she wants a relationship and all, i'm not after that. however i continued to speak with her and she even came back to a friends house where there were 4 girls, 4 guys. i would have considered myself the alpha male. making many jokes, being interegatted by another girl who said i mis treated her friend. the conversation was all around me for much of the night and i didn't come off looking bad. i'd like to use this girl to meet new girls. although she told me all of her friends are taken. (shes a 7)

girl two, met her at a party many months ago, didn't do alot of talking. i play sport at an indoor sports center. saw her there, didn't recognise her, thought she was very good looking made ALOT of eye contact but didn't think too much of it. saw her at a club, didn't recognise her from either of the previous meetings. made HEAPS of eye contact/smiling. was too gutless to pursue her. later made further eye contact and she waved me over. i suddenly realised where i knew her from (mates party) so i went over and spoke to her about that. was probably talking for 5 or 6 minutes really well about general stuff. then i made the bad move of staying around while the conversation died down and then left. should have gone out on a high. spoke to her later, got her number. next night i invited her out to a friends house, she declined. thank god because i got a giant pimple near my lip, and my mates house was a really boring night and i was very tired. saw her at the indoor sports center again. she was watching the game i was competing in, noticed her, made some eye contact, and waved. after the game she txt'd me saying "how are ya? did ya win? lol" she knew we lost (badly) so she was making a joke. i played pretty well. and txt'd back (in an attempt to be ****y) "yeah i'm good thanks, how are you? i didn't expect you to come down and watch my game? i hope i didn't disapoint you" or something to that extent. no reply yet (so maybe my reply wasn't so great. lol) i'd give this girl a 9. i'd like to hook up with her very much. and we have mutual friends (the host of the party, how can i use them to get her?)

girl 3. been friends with her quite along time. nothing has ever happened. i am feeling slightly more confident in my looks and was talking to her alot one night (not even interested in picking her up at this stage) was alot of "kino" and the week after i saw her again, and again i made extra effort for some kino and flirting. since then she's txt'd me asking what i'm doing for the night but unfortunantly i couldn't make arrangements as i had to study for exams. she's probably an 8. i'm not extremely interested but it would be a good acheivement as she once called me ugly.

sorry thats so long. but i would really like some advice with girl two. and three wouldn't be too bad either. although my motive is probably a bit weak there.

 

[So pimp its scary]

quest, the boot camp is meant to be hard... I reallly recommend going through it, It's take me three tries to complete, so don't stress yourself out too much on that.

Unlike some people, I would recommend that you not even consider how many girls you wanna shag. That shyete does not matter.

Don't get me wrong, goals are a good thing. BUT, try to keep your goals non sex-related. I'm only saying this because I made teh same mistake a while ago....

Hey, I'm very drunk right now, I'll PM you once I sober up.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by quest
over the next year i'd like to become a DJ, don't care to increase my ammount of picking up girls. i want to increase the average from probably a 6-7 to an 8-9 and i want to lay atleast 8 girls. also, i'd really like to meet some girls in the daytime.

sorry to bring up an old thread which can't really help anyone. but its nearing a year since i posted this and i thought i'd update anyone who cares with my progress..

currently been with my girlfriend HB8 6 months. and was having casual sex for a month or 2 prior to that.

before the girlfriend thing started, i got myself laid 6 times, and i can't remember the number of girls i would have kiss closed, probably about 15.

i think i'm quite well on the way to being a dj, but still not there yet.. confidence is sky high, i've got the game pretty well down pat.. however i'm still struggling with getting my life exactly how i want it. ie; i'm writing this post instead of doing an assignment i should be doing, also i haven't been going to gym very much.

and i've definently made mistakes with my girlfriend, but i've learnt a hell of alot from it. i like her, she likes me. but i'm kind of over the whole situation, and i need to end it..

maybe this time next year i'll be a real pimp

but definently my state of mind has changed so much and i'm finding it a whole heap easier to make new friends and have fun.