"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wanted: Advice from Barefoot Runners

itishe

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I've been getting into running barefoot and today is my 2nd day. My first day all went well in terms of foot condition, no: blisters, torn skin, cracked skin. Now today when I get about a tenth or so of a mile into my run I notice my middle toe on my right foot is starting to give me slight pain. So I keep going a while longer and then proceed to look at my toe.

I notice there was a decent size area of skin removed and you could see blood and the underskin along with rocks stuck inside my skin grooves. I walk limpidly home and carefully clean it out with alcohol :)eek: ) then put a cotton ball and bandaid on it to prevent infection.

Is this normal to have skin torn off or am I placing way too much emphasis in landing on my front/toe area (much like you would in sprinting)?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Perhaps I should of started out on grass, but I jumped right in and started on blacktop which in my view is softer than concrete, but still punishing too a rookie.
 

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Curious: What convinced you to take this up?
 

Cappy da pimp

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Ive been a runner since HS with some layoffs from time to time. It was always my understanding that running barefoot wasnt to be done for an axtended period of time. For us it was always for a short, no more than a half mile on grass cool down after a cross country race, or to just do a few short sprints say 100M after practice or a training run.

And it was always on grass, never on concrete or pavement. Running on grass or trails is always preferred over running on concrete or pavement. Just because its so much softer on the knees and joints. Hope that helps some.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The tips of the two toes next to the big toe (Two on each foot.) always wear down if I run really hard or my feet are out of shape from not running. If this happens I use tape. I usually try to bring tape with me. But I also have bad knees so I usually don't push it so hard that I need the tape.

I use white hockey stick tape. I have to use a lot of layers, wrapping it around the tip of the toe several times. It will stay on if it is wet like in the rain, but it must be put on completely dry.

I run 3 to 5 miles through the city depending on my knees. I run over broken glass and all that. I grew up in the woods with wild thorn bushes so the city is like a barefoot paradise.

One thing I have noticed is that I get glass in my foot usually only when it is raining. I think the skin on my foot gets softer, the water lubricates the glass, and I can't see the shiny glass to avoid in when the ground is wet and shiny.

To take out the glass in my foot (Hasn't happened for months now.) I take one of those old fashion double edge razor blades and break it in half and then carefully bend it so I can scoop out the layers of callous skin over the glass. (Best if the skin is wet) with this method I can remove just a small surface area and so I can keep running.

I use a very thin needle, the dull end where you put the thread, to probe it to get at the glass. And I use rubbing alcohol to do this. It hurts at first and then it numbs it. It also kills the germs. If I cant get at the glass I just leave it in. I will just probe it with the backwards needle and alcohol a couple times a day and this stops infection. If it starts hurting I just jam some alcohol into it to kill the infection. It always come out later. I wish I had known about this when I was in the woods with those thorns.

Ok, I know we're supposed to wear shoes, I know we're supposed to wear a condom..
 

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itishe said:
but I jumped right in and started on blacktop which in my view is softer than concrete, but still punishing too a rookie.
If it is that black tar stuff with those tiny rocks in it, that can be the worst of any surface. That is the one surface to avoid. Even dogs should have shoes to run on that stuff.
 
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