"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WANTED: A NON-JUAN Moment in Your Life (not AFC - There's a Difference!)

Mr. Non-Juan

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GREETINGS, Non-Juan fans!!

As you all know, I have a book out - "From PIMP to WIMP: The Non-Juan's Guide to LOSING The Girl of Your Dreams" - where I point out the various ways a guy can make a girl who once showed interest lose attraction FAST!

The book contains several personal stories where a girl who had interest in me lost it after doing some key Non-Juan things! However, I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who's gotten a girl to lose interest in me!

This post is for you, fair reader, to share a Non-Juan story from your life with people on this board, so that we can all learn from your experience another thing to do to get a girl to NOT like us anymore!

"But Mr. Non-Juan - there's already a post on this board where people can post their most AFC move! Isn't that the same thing?"

The answer is NO, and here's why: an AFC move (Average Frustrated Chump for you newbies out there) is a move where you were trying to get with a girl, and did something that prevented her from wanting to get with you; a NON-JUAN move is a move where a girl had interest in you, and you did something that drastically REMOVED any chances you had of getting with her!

Since I started this particular post, I'll start it off with a story that's not in my book: In college there was a girl named 'Coyia who was in my major and had developed a crush on me. She was a year ahead of me; despite this, she couldn't write a decently-worded paper to save her life. She was in the library working on her thesis while I was in there playing around on the computer. I noticed she was having writer's block, so I helped her out a bit by proofreading the paper.

2 Hrs. later, her paper was done, and it was around 10:15 PM. I was about to leave the library and head to my dormitory, when she asked if I was hungry. I hadn't eaten, so I said "yeah, sure." She said she wanted to treat me to dinner as a "thank you" for helping her with her thesis. I said, "okay, where do you want to eat?"

Answer: her apartment. She wanted to cook for me.

So, I followed her to her apartment. We got there, and I sat at the table while she got out pots and pans and cooked a meal for me at 10:30 at night. By the time we finished eating, it was 11 PM. She turned off the TV in her living room, put the plates and food away; then she came up to me, looking in my eyes with that "I want you look" on her face, and said, "well, it's late... I guess I should be going to bed..."

...so I said, "okay - see you in class tomorrow!" and drove back to my dorm.

It was pretty much downhill from there :cheer:

Okay, that's my story - feel free to share yours!

-Mr. Non-Juan
"Teaching Men to Be Good With Women... by Showing How to LOSE Them!"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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