Want what you cant have syndrome

[BongDuy]

Lately ive been having a lot of luck with women, or im getting the hang of things, but i found that i Always have a huge bang, or a high lvl of attractoio. To a girl, but after the kiss or a huge hook up, no sex tho, i begin to start looking for a new girl. Then when the girl that i hooked up with is gone, i get feelings again. Im wondering does anyone else have this problem

 

[runner83]

My advice is that after the initial hookup (if no sex), you need to keep things going. Guys MUST always initiate.

Simply put her into orbit as one of your options.

If after 3 meetings, you haven't had sex, either you haven't kept things moving enough, or she may want to wait longer.

Just remember though (credit to RT), if a girl holds off on sex, it is never worth the wait.

 

[In$tinct]

I have that problem terribly, OP. "The thrill of the chase!" When I posed this question before, the best answer I received was pretty much...

If you are losing attraction in your targets after the challenge is gone, it isn't a problem with you, it is them. Women are taught to play hard to get in order to keep us as the "chaser". If they aren't, thry need to work on themselves, keep after it until you find one that can keep your attention.

Cheers!

 

[xectxny19x]

keep after it until you find one that can keep your attention.

I agree with this. I'm like you. Once I get the girl, I'm no longer interested in her. It wasn't until I chased one particular girl, got her and was still interested in her that I found out that it really takes the right girl to stay interested.