"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Want to start over in studying the game.

Chamber36

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So I remember coming here a long time ago, almost 6 years ago.

I've made a little progress in just about every area. Just not in every area.

I've managed to get my first girlfriend. We're together, although not always happily or smoothly. She's a post-wall 33 yr-old half-korean half-russian chick who is insecure and slightly possessive.

I'm 26 and I'm still in University. Not quite satisfied as I am a year behind schedule there. Sometimes I feel as though I might not have the opportunities in the future that younger students might.

I haven't got my driver's license yet, but I just passed the theory exam. Just need to do some classes and pass the practical exam. I'll do is as soon as I've handed in my current project in Uni.

My girlfriend has certainly done a lot for me, I've learned a lot about LTR game, which I didn't know before. I work in a bar so I'm meeting lots of girls on the side, but it's not really a renowned bar, so I am missing the novelty factor and getting bored. I remember when I started studying game I had made a list of 10 or more books to read and I read many of them. I ordered plenty. Nowadays I am just trying to grind through Psycho-cybernetics, as it's an awesome book, but it doesn't grab me by the balls like other books.

Yea, so I'm feeling a bit of a *quarter life crisis* at the moment, and I wish I just had the mania, the excitement, the inspiration to develop intellectually and spiritually. I'm cought up in the material, and even materially, I don't feel too great because I'm still a student and just WANT things. I WANT a rolex, I WANT a hotter girlfriend and I WANT a nice car to drive around Eastern europe with. For now, the most easily attainable goal is that nice car. I'll get that license.

I'm going to return to the forums for a while, and forget about my girlfriend for a while. I need good productive energy around me.

I'm also going to sign up for an RSD free tour for next month. I'm pretty excited about that.

Thanks for giving me a platform to talk.

PEACE OUT for now.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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