Want to see her more!

[Stormblade]

I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months now, I've stopped dating other girls and would like to pursue a relationship with her, she of course doesnt know this.
Now the problem is that we see each other once a week. I call on a tuesday I ask her out for the weekend and I get immediate agreement. She even drove down in a snow storm to cook me dinner the other day.
My problem is that I'd like to spend more time with her, I know shes interested but unlike other girls i've been with, she doesnt call or contact me in any way, I always do it.
My situation is that now I need to act proactively to get her to see me more, i've never been in this situation, She has school and works a few different jobs but I know she still has plenty of free time. whats a DJ way of getting her over to my place more?

 

[Slickster]

She sounds like she has High IL. Why not just invite her over? Nothing un-DJ-like about that.

You sound like you are worried about appearing too AFC by pursuing a relationship.

Keep your cool, don't rush anything. Slowly spend more time with her. Take her out more and more. Just don't seem needy or desperate.

Show her the time of her life and when it comes time to become exclusive she'll be the one to bring it up.

 

[ScrewIt]

u must call

if there's one thing from the dating game that i learned.... it's that girls will never call even if high IL does exist.

just call her out to hangout when YOU have the free time to do so. I would limit your hangouts to 1x-2x per week.

 

[NewMan]

I wouldn't go to crazy......

Next time you see her ask her out to a movie - or to shoot pool - or whatever for the middle of the week - say Wednesday.

Then when you see her, arrange to see her again that weekend.

But don't come on to strong or over eager.

Just act like it's no big deal - like you have done.

As you spend more time with her - you'll get closer, and she'll more than likely bring up the topic of you two

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Start seing her 2 times a week by having a fun planned activity set up, like 'wednesday night bowling', or something to that effect.

Or have her cook a tv dinner for you once a week on thursdays , 'tv dinner night'.