"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Want to Learn About Real Estate

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I don't know what the extent of experience is of the DJ's on this forum as far as real estate, but i'm pretty interested to see if anyone has any experience and could possibly recommend some books, or other resources. I'm not really interested in being a real estate broker - More interested in learning about buying, selling, renting, etc.

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Social_disturbance said:
I don't know what the extent of experience is of the DJ's on this forum as far as real estate, but i'm pretty interested to see if anyone has any experience and could possibly recommend some books, or other resources. I'm not really interested in being a real estate broker - More interested in learning about buying, selling, renting, etc.

Thanks in advance.
Now isn't the time to be trying to make a quick profit.
But if you have the money to hold (for maybe a few years) then it's a good time to get some good deals.

The best advice I can give you is research the markets in your area. Check house prices and how long everything has been on the market. Knowing this stuff is the only way you can spot a deal and get a feel for things.

I won't recommend anybooks because they are all pretty much the same. Most of them are geared for flipping which is not something that is easy right now.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Personally, I think that the best investors know the real estate laws such as a realitor, or mortgage broker as a base. Knowing the legal aspects could make things easier for you than someone who just knowing the market. It'll help you recognize the real deals.
 
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