"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Want to know what being a Nice Guy is like?

Hughman

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You've heard the AFCs that don't know or can't handle the truth say it:

"But I'm a nice guy! Why can't I get women? They say they want nice guys!"


Want to know what the equivalent is?

Imagine a fat chick. Now imagine her saying:

"But I'm a smart girl! Why don't guys want me? They say they want a smart woman!"


That, my fellow men, is the equivalence. Respond to actions, not words.

Wake up and smell the **** that is female-speak. Grow some balls, trust your gut, lose your fear of being perceived as a 'jerk'. It will be the greatest liberation in your life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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