"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Want to kick myself lol..

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So Sat night I was out with this cute girl, not too into but shes a real nice girl. I didn't even expect to be, she asked to meet for a few drinks around 7, I expected to go my own way after. So she tags along with me to go out to meet my friend. I felt like it would be rude to say she can't come. No harm, until this girl, much more my type, starts texting me, i had just met her the week before, apparently a friend's neighbor. She wants me to come meet her at a bar, the whole night I kept telling her I wasn't in the area AND hoping the girl I'm actually with would go off with her friends or go home. Finally the girl texting me ends with a "I'm going home, stop by and visit if you'd like..." at 1AM.
Never happened, the girl I was with didn't go anywhere until I dropped her off the next morning. So the one that was texting me that night was getting really sweet on me, finally last night I went with her to walk her dog. Big mistake, I was hungover, and she is not a convo starter, the walk was awkward, I had nothing to say. Despite already hitting it off with her once already. She said bye to me at about the half way back mark and hugged me like she would catch something if she made contact. There must've been a way to get out of the situation with the first girl without being a jerk? Especially since we really didn't have plans, she just hung around.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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drf408 said:
So Sat night I was out with this cute girl, not too into but shes a real nice girl. I didn't even expect to be, she asked to meet for a few drinks around 7, I expected to go my own way after. So she tags along with me to go out to meet my friend. I felt like it would be rude to say she can't come. No harm, until this girl, much more my type, starts texting me, i had just met her the week before, apparently a friend's neighbor. She wants me to come meet her at a bar, the whole night I kept telling her I wasn't in the area AND hoping the girl I'm actually with would go off with her friends or go home. Finally the girl texting me ends with a "I'm going home, stop by and visit if you'd like..." at 1AM.
Never happened, the girl I was with didn't go anywhere until I dropped her off the next morning. So the one that was texting me that night was getting really sweet on me, finally last night I went with her to walk her dog. Big mistake, I was hungover, and she is not a convo starter, the walk was awkward, I had nothing to say. Despite already hitting it off with her once already. She said bye to me at about the half way back mark and hugged me like she would catch something if she made contact. There must've been a way to get out of the situation with the first girl without being a jerk? Especially since we really didn't have plans, she just hung around.
You would have been better off "being a jerk" and getting laid while the other girl fussed over you leaving early, which would probably lead to another lay.
 

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Yeah, I struggle with that. At the moment its hard for me to do that especially since the girl I was with was very nice and really likes me. I usually need some motive to be a jerk..
 

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drf408 said:
Yeah, I struggle with that. At the moment its hard for me to do that especially since the girl I was with was very nice and really likes me. I usually need some motive to be a jerk..
How about the fact that she treats guys she's not interested in, who fawn over her, like ****?
 
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