"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Want to hook up, but NOT YET?

unorthodox

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I have this really nice chick, she likes me, I like her, we flirt.. Basically I asked the other day if she wanna hang out sometime. She beat around the bush for a few, then said, yes i do but NOT YET, just like that.. We haven't spoke since then (yesterday), and I wonder what's my best course of action?

I asked her if she has a flim or pimple or something, her reply was:

yes!
pimple @ 3 oclock :/

I don't know what that mean.

I'm not pursuing her, nah, I just wonder if there any way or action to maximize my chances of her wanting to hang out with me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cableguy

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She could want to hump your brains out but she's on the rag or, she's playing games. I personally would take it as low interest and wait for her to contact me with a day she wants to get together.
 
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