Want to give her a last try. How to initiate appropriately?

[Geloabu]

Hello I need some help with this girl. I'll have to tell my story first.


A few weeks ago I met this girl. We started texting/flirting. In the start she was very abruptly so after I made a few jokes she started telling everything about herself. She changed from hard to get to the women who couldn't be without me. I met her a few times everything was fine we had a great time, laughing constantly. She gaves signes she was really into me I was 100% sure. So last week saturday we met again and went out to eat something. Everything was fine she kept holding my hand and when I brought her home she started kissing me and told me how much she likes me.

So after that Saturday she didn't text me for three days and was avoiding me at school. When I asked her what's wrong why are you avoiding me? She answered that she taught it was going to fast, so I told her it's fine we can be friends if she wanted to.( I know very very very stupid of me). She didn't answer that she just said it was going to fast. So after that conversation about 4 hours later I get a text she wanted to stay friends and see what might happen between us. I said I agreed but i'm not gonna wait for her I immediately told her I was going for the other girl I was textin with.( she knew this girl was after me and I texted her alot). Immediately after I told her I wasn't going to wait for her she started telling me how much fun she had last saturday and that we never knew what will happen between us and she would love to meet again as friends and see what happens.. So I told her we will see.


After two days when she said she wanted to stay friends she texted me again saying "Hey we didn't talk in a long time" So I told her I was bussy etc. The next day in school she came to me wanting to talk. Whole time we talked she wanted to hold my hand but I was pulling my hand away. So that day we texted a bit and she thanked me for something I did for her a week ago so I purposely said no problem that's what good friendsss do.( I wanted her to feel bad about friendzoning me). After I told her a few times no problem that's what friends do etc. she started to become abruptly again. I guess she became mad I wasn't interested anymore.


Now I haven't seen her a few days but feel bad because I like her too much.
I guess she still likes me, and I want to give it one more chanse just one more try.
I'll see her in 3 days at school again and I want to ask her to meet up again but I don't know what's the best way to do that. If she rejects me I will be fine and I will get over it but she is too nice to lose without trying.

Now my questin is how can I best initiate and ask her to meet up again? should I ask it at school or just text her again?

Thanks in advance for all the help.

 

[ameya905]

Approach in person. Don't think too much. Remember Nike (Just do it). And when you're together talking, just escalate it from there and see where it goes. Good luck!

 

[ameya905]

P.S. - Don't utter the 'friend' word again. And if she says it, you know what to do.. NEXT!

 

[LearningSlowly]

Uhh why were you a **** to her? For 3 days she left you alone, so you overreacted and thought it was automatic friendzone so you basically told her to **** off and that you like someone else. She doesn't want to feel like just another option, she wants to feel special.

This girl seemed really into you and you killed it with all this friend talk. I would invite her over one on one with the pretense of being friends, but really just creating a flirty atmosphere between you two again.

Don't be outcome dependent, whatever happens is what was meant to happen.

 

[Geloabu]

eventually I asked if she wanted to go and get a drink but she refused, so I guess it's over too bad. Yeah after thinking back what happend I REALLY REALLY ****ed it up. The thing I hate most is people taught we had something and they are complementing because she is hot...