Let's get to the point, there's a chick named Amanda who I've probably talked about a dozen times. So my game is getting better and I'm thinking about approaching her. Problem, whenever we're in band and we're not playing, her guy friend is there. No, not boyfriend, but guy friend. I think they dated once because I heard this one girl saying "Amanda use to date [guysname] and she whipped him". They're not still together, but I think the guys still a little attached. Seriously though, I ALWAYS see him talking to her, it's like he doesn't give her any space. Even if they're just good friends, he's still around her WAY too much. So how do you deal with the guy friend who is always there?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Want to game her... however, her guy friend is always there.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Have one of your friends hijack the school's public address microphone/speakers - and say, "HisName, please leave HerName alone so that ElStud could ask her out"
He can't be with her 24 hours a day! Be creative!
He can't be with her 24 hours a day! Be creative!
Kev07
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Or go read up some AMOG tactics and put it to good use 
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
lol, if her female friend is always around, I doubt your game has gotten any better
Michele l'Arcangelo
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hm, elstud.
how what would you like us to say?
would you like us to agree with you to make you happy and not argue back? or to tell you straight up what we think?
backbreaker. bad. no. for his game has improved WAY MUCH MORE than anyone on this forum, especially how everyone that responds to his threads are "KBJs". (am i doing fine for you, elstud?)
but my opinion is... i think you should post 50 more FRs to add onto your other 50 FRs to prove that you're improving, since you definitely are. FRs are the ONLY true way to prove you aren't a KBJ, right on!
i really like your prince-story-neg-hit-c&F-routine... it's quite hilarious to be honest. and i can tell ladies love it when you tell them to dance for you... way to have them qualify YOU! not bad, brother!
so pretty much don't settle down with this one female amanda girl. you definitely have plenty other girls that want you, TAKE YOUR PICK!
you're doing good, bro, keep up the good work!
how what would you like us to say?
would you like us to agree with you to make you happy and not argue back? or to tell you straight up what we think?
backbreaker. bad. no. for his game has improved WAY MUCH MORE than anyone on this forum, especially how everyone that responds to his threads are "KBJs". (am i doing fine for you, elstud?)
but my opinion is... i think you should post 50 more FRs to add onto your other 50 FRs to prove that you're improving, since you definitely are. FRs are the ONLY true way to prove you aren't a KBJ, right on!
i really like your prince-story-neg-hit-c&F-routine... it's quite hilarious to be honest. and i can tell ladies love it when you tell them to dance for you... way to have them qualify YOU! not bad, brother!
so pretty much don't settle down with this one female amanda girl. you definitely have plenty other girls that want you, TAKE YOUR PICK!
you're doing good, bro, keep up the good work!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Just politely interrupt one of their conversations, ask her if she wants to study(or whatever kinda date you have in mind), and move on. Who cares if he's there, you said they're just friends anyway. If shes not interested, oh well. Theres WAY too many women out there anyway, her loss
"Well, it was good talking with you, Amanda. I'll see you later...
Oh yeah, why don't I get your number in case I want to call you sometime?"
Phones are two-way devices.
She doesn't have to be completely isolated for you to be able to establish enough rapport to #-close. If a girl likes you, it's not that hard to game her slightly even with several people around.
Oh yeah, why don't I get your number in case I want to call you sometime?"
Phones are two-way devices.
She doesn't have to be completely isolated for you to be able to establish enough rapport to #-close. If a girl likes you, it's not that hard to game her slightly even with several people around.
typical
Master Don Juan
Ahh bro her mate told you in a nice way that those two are a item by saying they used to date once, doesn't mean that they don't date anymore.
Ask the girl for her number ask her out don't dwell on it ........... my money says the so called friend is secretly banging her.
Ask the girl for her number ask her out don't dwell on it ........... my money says the so called friend is secretly banging her.
Someone Much cooler
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I would try and see whats up and go from there. if he say something, be like my bad, I ain't realize yall were a couple, i thought yall were just friends.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
You have to isolate her. Best way for that would to simply get her number. After a good conversation of C+F, she's smiling, and you're big on DHV's, tell her to give you her number. Call her up a little while later and get her to check out a new movie with you.
If the meeting environment isn't suitable or comfortable, ditch it and make your own. Rest assured that she probably won't be creepy enough to bring guyfriend with her to any meet with you.
In any case, you need to start working group tactics on this guyfriend. Become his good friend, hang out with him a few times. Take him to the shooting range or go have a smoke with him. It's much easier to attract a girl when the group deems that you're safe and cool. Take your time, keep your cool, and you should be just fine.
-Damian
If the meeting environment isn't suitable or comfortable, ditch it and make your own. Rest assured that she probably won't be creepy enough to bring guyfriend with her to any meet with you.
In any case, you need to start working group tactics on this guyfriend. Become his good friend, hang out with him a few times. Take him to the shooting range or go have a smoke with him. It's much easier to attract a girl when the group deems that you're safe and cool. Take your time, keep your cool, and you should be just fine.
-Damian