"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay now I am 17.. 165 pounds and 180cm which works out 5.9 feet which would be like 5'12 or something I am not sure.

Anyway I use to be like 185 pounds and was way fatter, that was about 10 months ago. Now I want to be ripped and gain muscle in the process.. I really do not want to gain muscle and sacrifice my wieght at the same time.

I will have from November till Mid February free time to do what I please.. I believe in that time I can maybe not be ripped, but better body.

What kind of foods and exercise would you's recommend.

I play indoor soccer weekly... Also hit the punching bag in backyard... Also can go gym... run on track.... or swim laps..

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't understand what you meant about sacrificing your weight to gain muscle? What do you mean by that exactly? Your scale weight?
 

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Read threads is one of the first things you can do. Theres a plethera of information about workout routines, exercises, diet, cardio etc.

185cm = About 6'0.85 (5'12"=6' btw) which is close enough to 6'1.

If you don't want to "sacrifice your weight" then you shouldnt do much of anything. If you gain muscle, you will gain scale weight. However, you CAN gain muscle and reduce fat in the same time frame.

Three day split.
Proper diet, proper nutrient timing, POSSIBLE supplementation if diet isn't enough.
Proper cardio if necessary.

Four months is plenty of time to add some good size (nothing incredible) if you eat right and lift smart.

I'm kind of fond of the whole powerlifting/olympic lifting routines that focus around strength instead of isolation exercises. Those guys get to be quite muscular, even though the stereotypical image of those guys is a fat lumbering ogre. Granted, the heavyweights don't care about aesthetics, but those that have to maintain weight classes can often times look quite "ripped".

Research powerlifting and olympic lifting.
Research nutrient timing.
Research Squat, Deadlift, Bench press.
Research, research, research.

After that, once you feel you have a base, come back here, toss out some ideas, piece together a routine and diet outline. We'll help you, even though WBA will probably offer the more valid assistance.
 

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What I meant is that I do not want to have to bulk and cut. I do not want have to be any fatter then I am now. By that I mean I want to gain muscle and work on the way to get proper 6pac however long that will take.
 

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you will gain SOME fat when you gain muscle, thats the whole idea of how you gain muscle, extra food is eaten, when you have that muscle it is much easier to get even MORE cut than you could have without.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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RaWBLooD said:
you will gain SOME fat when you gain muscle, thats the whole idea of how you gain muscle, extra food is eaten, when you have that muscle it is much easier to get even MORE cut than you could have without.
you can keep the same bodyfat as you gain muscle, you can even reduce bodyfat while gaining muscle.

Legend, what you want is perfectly possible - read Skilla's post and then the Idiot's Guide..
 

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Warboss Alex said:
you can keep the same bodyfat as you gain muscle, you can even reduce bodyfat while gaining muscle.

Legend, what you want is perfectly possible - read Skilla's post and then the Idiot's Guide..
yes you can keep your bodyfat % the same or lower it, the actual amount of fat will increase wether you like it or not.
 

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RaWBLooD said:
yes you can keep your bodyfat % the same or lower it, the actual amount of fat will increase wether you like it or not.
no, I'm talking the % and the actual physical fat mass.
 
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