Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Want to be different? some general awareness!

THE_ADDMAN

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Right now, I am in college. you wouldnt believe the amount of drunken college guys are running screaming through the halls here at any given time. sure distracts a guy from his mackin ;)

I see these guys flirting with girls all the time, and the girls flirt back BUT IT NEVER GOES ANYWHERE. the guys are all the same! Drunkenly flirting and hitting on girls, but never having the balls to close and get the girl more alone


Use some general awareness to find out what most other guys are doing, then tweak your game and go a bit in the opposite direction with yours.

Example: Everyone flirting aimlessly?
cut to the chase and be sensual and more direct.

Everyone using Indirect? Go direct

Everyone quiet? be the life of the party

Everyone drunk and screaming? be cool and laid back, chatting casually to the more sober girls.

If every other guy is walking around asking girls for their number, then you do the opposite and be mysterious, ****y, and just a little flirtacious. Letting them come to you.

My point is that All the other guys are playing the same game, just at different levels. They are COMPETING with eachother for women.

Instead, do something else and play your OWN game, compete with no one but YOURSELF.

at the very worst, you'll be more unique and hugely differentiated than the other guys.
At the very best, you'll be knee-deep in trim ;)


Note: general rules of Don Juan still apply.

But in a Club full of PUAs, the girls will be more interested in the lone AFC...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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piri

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Yep. It's ovious that if you're diffrent from every other guy you'll stand out above the crowd.
All that aother competition between the other guys happens because they are needy and must proove themselves. A true DJ is NEVER needy.

Great tip ;)
 
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