"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Want the KEY to getting women OFF Facebook?

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Blackmm said:
A lot of hot chicks aren't on dating sites because they don't need to be on one, but they have Facebook pages that are free for you to access.

EXACTLY! Moreover, paid dating sites attempt to match you with other women based on compatibility tests and technical algorithms they've programmed. In some cases these have been successful. But there have been some horror stories as well. Why rely on some "matching" software when you can pick out your own girls for free?

Facebook and Twitter are CLOSER to the real world: more of a selection and you have to use your wit and charm more effectively. A good middle-of-the-road site is Plenty Of Fish, as well. And the game to do it is in my books.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I would also like no note since deleting my Facebook ( and giving friends one day to give me contact information) I received quite a few numbers from girls on my Facebook, have had them calling me and even started teaching one of them to box today which has involved a lot of kino and given her the opportunity to see me doing man stuff lol. I do not regret deleting my Facebook in the slightest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I deleted my facebook about a month ago, and unfortunately it feels like no one has really noticed. The same girls still text/call me, the same buddies still text/call me. The world didn't end, and I don't have a bunch of girls wondering what I'm doing because I'm so "mysterious" now. But one thing is for sure, my life is a lot less dramatic, and I don't have to put up with the daily feminist garbage wall posts constantly. That's good enough for me.

I don't know how the guys here do it, but pulling girls off facebook was always challenging for me. I think it was because I jumped on the band wagon a little too late, and had a bunch of competition. I remember back in the myspace days, girls weren't as shy about meeting up and I got a lot of lays from it, but as it got popular, that slowly diminished. I've just came to the conclusion that online dating is sort of a joke.

-Scars
 

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I didn't think these maggots would come up with a product like this but apparently not. Honestly if you can't get a girl by talking to her over Facebook you seriously need to rethink your game.
 

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Phase 1: Find facebook girls
Phase 2: ?
Phase 3: Profit!

Case dismissed. Talk to girls in real life. :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If used to supplement outside game, then I don't see the issue. Anywhere is a potential sorting out ground. If it's the only method, then yeah, it does denote a lack of balls/confidence.

I've made some longstanding friends of social networking, by just poking women from common groups/apps, but never a date/relationship.
 
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