Want some experienced guys opinions here (been talking about this chick over a year on here)

[captain55]

About a year ago I began seeing this 29 year old chick. We only went on a few dates and I had only gone as far as making out with her, before she ended up going back to her ex. After they were together for a few months, she continues to try and contact me behind his back. After about 4 months, I finally give in and we begin dating.

Of course the fact that she went behind his back made me never trust her myself. I did like her, but I couldn't full commit to her knowing she could not be trusted. I think this effected the amount of time and effort I put into her.

We never really "drifted apart", her interest level was 100% up until a week before she broke up with me and her interest level was 100% the last time I saw her in person. I know so because she was always talking to me about having a baby and I think she wanted to get pregnant with me. What triggered her breaking up was I said some things that pissed her off in text. Boom she loses feelings for me....never had anything like that before.

Why is it that every time she's uncertain about me she runs back to her ex? Does this mean she still has feelings for me and is using him as a safety net?

Also would like to get some predictions going here on when she comes back a second time so I can update this thread when the time comes. I would LOVE the satisfaction of rejecting her and I want to update this thread when she does come back.

 

[MOTU]

Why is it that every time she's uncertain about me she runs back to her ex? Does this mean she still has feelings for me and is using him as a safety net?

Exactly. And she probably loves the drama of having two men in her life. I bet she talks to him, or worse, more than you know while you are having your turn with her.

 

[Glumix]

Not sure if wanting to get pregnant is a mark of love or interest. Especially if she dumps you 5 minutes later...

 

[captain55]

Not sure if wanting to get pregnant is a mark of love or interest. Especially if she dumps you 5 minutes later...

Exactly. And she probably loves the drama of having two men in her life. I bet she talks to him, or worse, more than you know while you are having your turn with her.

He would text her constantly throughout the entire relationship, I saw the texts he would send her so she didn't hide that from me. In one of the conversations, she told the guy she has no feelings for him and to stay out of her life because she has moved on ..and went and had sex with me a few days later for the first time.

 

[Misrah]

Smells like LI to me. Drop that ****. I personally wouldn't stand for any of the bull**** she has been giving you. Any girl that was recently dating another man, and now wants to get preggo... With me, i would run away so fast. Smells crazy.

 

[captain55]

Smells like LI to me. Drop that ****. I personally wouldn't stand for any of the bull**** she has been giving you. Any girl that was recently dating another man, and now wants to get preggo... With me, i would run away so fast. Smells crazy.

No doubt brother she is crazy. Ive just never met a crazy chick who had her life together as she does and came from such a good family. Usually every crazy chick I've met had some daddy issues, history of abuse, etc. On the surface she seemed perfect, but she's nuts

 

[King of Action]

It appears your letting her control both your mental and sexual state of mind. The biggest is your mental state of mind. If she's displaying these types signals around/behind you, set boundaries with her. What i'm about to explain to you is about my best friend since 5th grade and we're in our 40's. The female your with can one these females my buddy be banging.

My best friend would bang chicks and they would go off into another relationship with another guy. year and half later, they hook back up with my buddy while still seeing the other guy. One chick hooked up with him, got pregnant and while pregnant and still let my buddy hit it. One female even joined the U.S. Navy for four years. Got out the Navy and moved back in town. What she do, hooked up with my buddy. I don't want to mention all the women i saw him with, however, they knew he had other ladies. Of all the women he was with, i can only count maybe two in his lifetime he ever caught feeling for.

The lady you're with can be the start of you Don Juan career. If you're catching feeling and you let her tell you to get her pregnant, you should be prepared for the downfall ahead. If you keep it sexual and meet other ladies, even if she finds out, down the road she'll be back and forth with you. No doubt she will if you set your boundaries.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Keep talking to this chick and see what happens. Your going to be on the Maury show trying to figure out who the father is.

 

[Lozboss]

Nuke her from orbit- no explanation. Just full NC ghost- block her on everything.

Op you've got oneitis and a serious lack of self respect. You don't nuke her you're never free of her bulksh*t emotional web.

Do that or continue with this cr*p. If you do the latter leave this forum for good.

Decision is simple, not easy.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Dear Lord............One year. A year of your life wasted. 29 years old woman = baby rabies , fast approaching to The Wall™ , looking for her beta bucks , expelled from the carousel.

Run and do not look back.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Captain,
Well Skip you leant over the side and picked up a bottle with a message from this floosie,it reads run Forest run!

 

[Reykhel]

About a year ago I began seeing this 29 year old chick. We only went on a few dates and I had only gone as far as making out with her, before she ended up going back to her ex. After they were together for a few months, she continues to try and contact me behind his back. After about 4 months, I finally give in and we begin dating.

Of course the fact that she went behind his back made me never trust her myself. I did like her, but I couldn't full commit to her knowing she could not be trusted. I think this effected the amount of time and effort I put into her.

We never really "drifted apart", her interest level was 100% up until a week before she broke up with me and her interest level was 100% the last time I saw her in person. I know so because she was always talking to me about having a baby and I think she wanted to get pregnant with me. What triggered her breaking up was I said some things that pissed her off in text. Boom she loses feelings for me....never had anything like that before.

Why is it that every time she's uncertain about me she runs back to her ex? Does this mean she still has feelings for me and is using him as a safety net?

Also would like to get some predictions going here on when she comes back a second time so I can update this thread when the time comes. I would LOVE the satisfaction of rejecting her and I want to update this thread when she does come back.

You've overestimated her interest level in you. I'll repeat that so you'll hear it...YOU'VE OVERESTIMATED HER INTEREST LEVEL IN YOU. 100% interest level in you and she's still banging her ex?? No kid, no, no fvcking way kid. Reality is not something you're familiar with.

How do we judge her interest level? By her actions and her actions are definately not saying "I'm 100% interested in you"

Try date biatches that don't have an ex lurking in the back ground. And underestimate her interest level....

 

[Robert28]

My friend, you have found a grade A, 100%, American female nutcase.

 

[AllDay85]

About a year ago I began seeing this 29 year old chick. We only went on a few dates and I had only gone as far as making out with her, before she ended up going back to her ex. After they were together for a few months, she continues to try and contact me behind his back. After about 4 months, I finally give in and we begin dating.

Of course the fact that she went behind his back made me never trust her myself. I did like her, but I couldn't full commit to her knowing she could not be trusted. I think this effected the amount of time and effort I put into her.

We never really "drifted apart", her interest level was 100% up until a week before she broke up with me and her interest level was 100% the last time I saw her in person. I know so because she was always talking to me about having a baby and I think she wanted to get pregnant with me. What triggered her breaking up was I said some things that pissed her off in text. Boom she loses feelings for me....never had anything like that before.

Why is it that every time she's uncertain about me she runs back to her ex? Does this mean she still has feelings for me and is using him as a safety net?

Also would like to get some predictions going here on when she comes back a second time so I can update this thread when the time comes. I would LOVE the satisfaction of rejecting her and I want to update this thread when she does come back.

Actions speak louder than words buddy. She's showing an extremely low interest level. Time to stop the beta game.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Run.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Are you so low in self-esteem that you think you can't do better!
Cheater, liar, wants to get pregnant! Which of these do you find attractive?
Grow a pair. Dump the manipulative ***** and move on. Stop wasting your life rooting through other people's garbage.

 

[Tictac]

A chick that does this is no more than a f*ck buddy. You can't trust her. What she does to her main guy, she will do to you.

So don't give a damn about her feelings, why she does what she does or any ot that. and especially don't let your feelings get in the way of seeing clearly that she cheats.

Right now she cheats with you. Soon enough, it will be her cheating on you.

 

[Desdinova]

Why is it that every time she's uncertain about me she runs back to her ex

High Score Theory.

He's higher up on the list than you. Given that she's 29, it's unlikely that you'll never get to the top of her high score list.