"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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want INNER game..drop DeAngelo.

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this is not a rip on DeAngelo.

this is a rip to all the guys who sit here and quote him..and sit here and post advice as KBJ's.

its more of saying put down David and go hit on 150 women..and you will be cured.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Actually even if you go out and are a total tool you will get better. You will just start to get a feel, I can't explain it with words, but you get this feeling and you just know which women to approach. You just know what angle to come in under. You see hundreds of people going out per week, you know how to dress. You know which girl's are the club owners. There is only one way to get this, I don't give a rat's ass how many books you've read you will never have this unless you approach at least 300 women over the course of a month or two. If you've approached 300 women and not gotten laid at least a couple of times, then you really do such and should go do some research. Try one thing at a time @ that point. One new peice per evening. That is fail proof. Even if you have a weird eye or something.
 

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everywomanshero-
YES, exactly.

like you said you will get a feel for it...and confidence that you will suceed.

after 150-300 women..you will know you can land anyone u try for..

if you need to alter anything come back and talk about it.

but dont even start talking about it.unless you are 100 percent confident.

and going to out in the field will do that
 

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imagine two men wanted to get in better shape. One guy sits on his bum reading about cardio nonstop. He knows everything, the ideal BMI, the ideal heartrates, the exact interval rates, etc. He does this for 6 months, but only works out once every couple weeks because he is so busy reading.

Now, the other guy just jumps on the damn machines and goes crazy 4 days a week. Every now and then he reads an article on technique, and then he tries to implement that at the gym.

After 6 months who will be in better shape?

I know it's not a great analogy because seduction is both very simple on one level and very complex on another as there is *so* much a person can do. However, if this thread inspired someone to just start doing, then that person will see results within just a few weeks. In 6 months, the person will start to really feel in control. In a year, the person will never have to feel that lack of options ever again.
 

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frivolousz21 said:
if you want to be a king with women.

PRACTICE, PRACTICCE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE,PRACTICE, PRACTICCE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE,PRACTICE, PRACTICCE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE,PRACTICE, PRACTICCE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE,PRACTICE, PRACTICCE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE,PRACTICE, PRACTICCE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE


When I got here..I spent 3 weekend in November of 2004.

at 3 diff malls..each time I went up to nearly FIFTY(50) women.

how many guys here would do that? JUST ABOUT NONE.

after the 3rd mall.

I was done....I exstablished amazing rappor with talking to women.

thats all I needed to know.

I went on 13 first dates in a little over 5 months in 2005...before I met my fiance.

how was it so easy? how ?

I GOT IN THE FYCKING FIELD.

I STOPPED READING SHYT....AND DID THE BOOTCAMP.

IF YOU want to make more shots in basketball. how do u get better? practice
if you want to play halo 2 better, how do u get better? practice

this place is filled with PYSSYS.

I promise everyone here would be cured of this..if they banned together and started a massive bootcamp today..and in 3 or 4 weeks..guys here would be talking about all the arse they got.

but no they wont do that.

I wish they would
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This is Friv's Message!


Stop trying to argue whether DD is good or not. He doesn't even know DD's material. Friv just used it as a way to get your attention. It obviously worked. Stop bashing on Friv and Start Changing Your Life!

Join a Bootcamp!

:up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No Bones said:
You've only read one of his articles?

Then how can you determine that his material is useless for inner game?
I've read a whole bunch of his articles and watched those stupid, stupid videos.

And I have to agree that it is useless.

You just need some balls, and a wakeup call.

No one can teach you inner game. You have to find yours through hardship. Read pooks posts. His stuff is WAY better than DeAngelos.

Why?

Because it helps you to reveal what you have and doesn't tell you what you should be.
 
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everywomanshero said:
Actually even if you go out and are a total tool you will get better. You will just start to get a feel, I can't explain it with words, but you get this feeling and you just know which women to approach. You just know what angle to come in under. You see hundreds of people going out per week, you know how to dress. You know which girl's are the club owners. There is only one way to get this, I don't give a rat's ass how many books you've read you will never have this unless you approach at least 300 women over the course of a month or two. If you've approached 300 women and not gotten laid at least a couple of times, then you really do such and should go do some research. Try one thing at a time @ that point. One new peice per evening. That is fail proof. Even if you have a weird eye or something.
Instinct.

It's in you.

You just got to tune it to your surroundings. I think that's what is happening.
 

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LOL at all the people who thought the point of this post by Friv was that David D is no good. lol. if you dont understand what Friv was meaning by his original post now then something is wrong with you. lol:crackup:
 
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JayCamx23 said:
LOL at all the people who thought the point of this post by Friv was that David D is no good. lol. if you dont understand what Friv was meaning by his original post now then something is wrong with you. lol:crackup:
He's pretty much saying you develop your own inner game after awhile.
 

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What's up with frivolous's attitude?

"well..Im not sure what he writes..Ive never read more then maybe 1 article by him.

"other then that..I wouldnt take advice from a dating guru."

Then when people say it's odd he rejects a guy whose articles he hasn't even read (except one), he shows attitude? Reminds me of the style kids in their mid-teens will use on the internet.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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