"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Want her digits? Touch her arm

KUSHVILLE

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In a scientific study, a good-looking man approached 120 women in a night club over a period of three weeks, and asked them to dance. Of the 60 women who he touched lightly on the arm, 65 percent agreed to a dance, compared with just 43 percent of whom he asked without making any physical contact.

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The BPS Research Digest covers a simple yet fascinating study on the power on lightly touching someone's arm when trying to persuade them.

In this case, the psychology study involved a man asking women to dance or for their phone numbers.

A good-looking man approached 120 women in a night club over a period of three weeks, and asked them to dance. It was in the name of science – the man was an assistant to the psychologist Nicolas Guegen. Remarkably, of the 60 women who he touched lightly on the arm, 65 per cent agreed to a dance, compared with just 43 per cent of the 60 women who he asked without making any physical contact.

A second study involved three male research assistants approaching 240 women in the street and asking them for their phone numbers. Among those 120 women who the researchers touched lightly on the arm, 19 per cent agreed to share their number, compared with 10 per cent of the women with whom no physical contact was made.

Christian has a fantastic talent for finding really intriguing studies and this is a particularly good example.

Have a look at his article for more on why this effect might occur.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sir Juanalot

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KUSHVILLE said:
Among those 120 women who the researchers touched lightly on the arm, 19 per cent agreed to share their number, compared with 10 per cent of the women with whom no physical contact was made.
Another thing i noted from that article, theres your numbers game right there.

120 women 19% success.
 

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Go getta said:
I found that i was way more successful when i went sarging with a hardon. just jerk off before you go sarging and then thrust it against a woman's body. science has proved that 100% she will talk to you and about 36% of the time she will give you her number and a date
Science has also shown that you live under a bridge..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This has nothing to do with science. In order for a theory to be proven correct in science, it has to be tested over and over and over and over again to get the same results (or outcome).

This is not science but a simple probability! It should be summed up as a Confidence Interval (from Statistics), not as a scientific claim.

Psychology is not a science.

Try getting some hidious dude to do the same experiment ..I bet the numbers are quite different. In science, they would be the same no matter who did the experiment.
 

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Sir Juanalot said:
120 women 19% success.
That's actually a pretty low #. And out of that, probably only a few are real numbers that the chick wouldn't blow him off after picking up.

So, a good-looking guy is probably only batting maybe 5%-10% on cold pick-ups?
 

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wayword said:
So, a good-looking guy is probably only batting maybe 5%-10% on cold pick-ups?
Your flaw is that you are looking at it from a percentage stand point.

It counts how many women you have in the end therefore the more you approach the more women you will date.
 
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