"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I hope you know that most women are gold diggers underneath, they just don't tell you right away. I know that if you got money, your eyes see a lot of available women who warm up to you a lot. I agree on the fact that when he loses it, he starts seeing a lot of women who have boyfriends and husbands, while he's on the sidelines.Zodiac said:
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exactly.Zodiac said:
so use them and move on when you get bored. You got what they want, successful man aka got some $$. Doesn't mean you ever get attached to any of them. Keep one or several long term girlfriends if you like on the side....... while you run through women, spend your money on -yourself- and enjoy the ride
SINGLE 4 LIFE!
heck, when i'm ready to have some children, i STILL won't marry.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Could this work? sure if you look good and have a "big" package (no Chris Brown) however this advice for a NOOB is terrible, and horrid @ best, the OP's other thread is gold(his step by step guide) no doubt but this one is garbageDonGorgon said:
