"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Wanna study, I need your help..." yea...

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Bilogomja

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Ok what do you guys think of this situation. This chick waits for me after class and asks if I can help her study for a class. I'm like I dont know. She was like you can hang out with me and stuff. I was like WTF, youre probably boring. She was pretty presistent though, probably would have brought me right to her dorm till I said I dont know we'll talk about it later (we got the next class together). So during this next class, we barely talk (I wanted to finish my chem. up). So after shes done she comes up and says, so when do you want to study, I say I dont know write down your number and give it to me and I walk away. She gives me the number like 5 mins later (not her dorm number but the cell).

Now this has been a chick that I've been thinking has been into me for a while. I've never really asked her out or anything, but we occasionaly talk in between and in classess. My question is do you think this girl wants to JUST STUDY? or do you think its more than that? I dont feel like getting my hopes up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ScrewIt

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she sounds pretty persistent in getting you to go to her dorm, she probably is interested.

tell her you tutoring her doesn't come free, and she'll have to do something for you in return. be that as it may, with this you shouldnt fall into the ffriend zone.

id suggest asking if she gives good massages. then tell her u want that in return...a good masaage after tutoring...then go make yhour moves
 
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Mojo604

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Just go to her dorm you big pusssy.:D she sounds interested.
 
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ShizamDaMan

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If she's hot, I don't see the problem. If anything, you'll get better at school since to explain something you really need to know it well, and you might get some action because she seems interested.

It's not necessarily a bad thing to be known as a smart guy.
 
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TizZle

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She's sending positive signals man! If she is good looking go for it sheesh! Go "study" in her dorm.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MakeItSo

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Ahh, the wonders of being a math major. Nothin' like being the center of attention after class! :p


"A true alpha easily gets the attention without all the extra commotion."
 
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alphawolfx

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she is interested in you

she is being a total afc, lol

go for it, play it cool, and BE THE SAME PERSON THAT SHE GOT ATTRACTED TO IN THE FIRST PLACE

f.uck her for your good old buddy alphawolf
 
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I think it will be hella funny (and disapointing for Bilogomja) if she REALLY just wants to study with him ;) All this worry for nothing.

But I agree with ScrewIt, no study help for free. She can make you dinner or rub your tired shoulders.
 
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