"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I also agree that if you lost weight you would be an 8+ easy. I see so many girls out there that have good bone structure and facial features but it's hidden under a layer of fat.

So when your in the gym working hard and you feel like giving up, remember this post. You lose weight, you will look far more attractive. You're won't be wasting your time by losing weight. :woo:

Just remember to keep your good personality when you become a hottie and don't become another attention wh0re...or the like....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just remember to keep your good personality when you become a hottie and don't become another attention wh0re...or the like....
This is very unlikely on the off chance that she becomes a hottie... People with the goods will act with high social value... Its natural...

My 2 cents: I think of course you should work out and more importantly change your eating and dietry habits... Ditch the glasses and get an expensive hair style... Start spending a bit more effort on your personal groming... You do look kinda cheap!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some of the people here have been overly harsh. Personally I think you have a lot of potential to be really hot. Good healthy skin and hair, and you look healthy, but you just need to work on some superficial aspects of your appearance and style.

Losing weight will completely change your appearance, enhance your natural curves and facial structure, and increase your appeal (and social value) tremendously. But I suggest you educate yourself before you start any dieting as fad diets can mess you up and don't really work. There's a lot of info and really helpful people in the health and fitness forum who will keep you informed and inspired.

See it as a step by step process rather than focusing on the end goal. Look forward to the end of every month when you look trimmer, feel lighter and the work pays off. And just think to yourself whatever knock backs you get today don't matter because your whole life is going to change.

If you can keep it up, many of the losers who run you down will probably be worshipping you in a year's time! (Trust me, it happened to me).

As you lose weight you will gain more body confidence and feel comfortable dressing more sexy and showing yourself off.

It's a long haul, but good luck and don't give up! The payoff is extraordinary!
 

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Originally posted by mactheripper
...don't become another attention wh0re...or the like....
What the hell do you think this thread is about?
 

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Hi, Ignore some of arsehole's here, maybe they are having flashbacks to how the 'hotties' felt towards them or how they feel about themselves in front of a hottie. I can suggest to you is DO NOT WEAR CLOTHES WITH HORIZONTAL STRIPES! horizontal stripes give off the illusion that you are wider than you may be. (The inverse is also true, you might want to wear a top with vertical stripes)

Since you do have light skin I also suggest wearing darker hue's... they also compliment your frame. Things that are in your immediate control that will take you up notches right away are getting a pair of glasses that aren't round as the ones you have now, again it adds a more WIDER look to your face. Try a new hairstyle, Do you have boobs?? learn to 'subtly show them off' (and no that doesn't mean dressing like a frenchmaid). :) Most importantly, apply what you can do right away.
 

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Are we seeing the same picture or is this a joke?

If it's a joke: HAHAHAHAHAHA! Damn, this really, seriously, made my day.

If it's serious: HAHAHAHAHAHA! Wait... HAHAHAHAHA! Oh, no...

no...

WAIT!

HAHAHA HA HA HA HAHAHA!

I'd rate you a... uuh... sorry to say it but...


... 8.5/10 maybe. Loose some weight and i'll give you a 9.
 
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