"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wanna hook up my bro

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Ok there's this chick a friend of mine is digging - she's an absolute ****tease and has a bit of a reputation. He's keen into her, and I'm assuming the feeling is being reciprocated by her. Though my buddy nearly always ends up becoming friends with girls he likes because he has no balls.

I'm good friends with one of ****tease's close friends - how should I play it wing to find out through her friend, if ****tease is digging my boy?

I mean I want to give him a helping hand - he's good with women but never approaches.

I'm not asking what to do - I think I can figure out how to probe for questions myself - I just want a list of no-nos. :)

Anway holler - I'm not used to playing Hitch.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In this case, I'm actually going to suggest something that I saw in a Deangelo newsletter. Go up to her and say "Hey, Wow, I've got this friend who I think would really like to meet you...then proceed to give her a positive image of your bro in whatever way you can. Just don't exxagerate anything too much or lie especially if your bro doesn't know what you have planned.
 
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say something like "hey, don't tell him i told you...but my friend kinda likes you. do u think hes cute, blah blah blah, etc."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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