"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wanna get laid? One important thing to realise.

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Sex and relationships often have nothing to do with one another. So don't feel guilty about ****ing and not "being together".

I concede that the best sex will be with your girlfriend/wife.

But casual sex many times is just that -- casual sex.


Girls nowadays are not the same as girls 10 years ago. They fvck as much or more than we do. In a specific setting, DJ techniques often aren't as powerful as a timed confident "Come here and suck on this". :)

Women follow the same laws as we do in that sex often isn't about the right person, but the right time and the right place.

Why the hell do you think women wear thongs, booty jeans, and tongue rings? The like sex, want sex, and need sex.

Fvck what women say and act like in public. That is not the real them. Sex is rampant fellas. So out there in the field, when you recognise a SAS(sexually active setting), plan on getting some head.

It's like pot. It's not an over dramatized thing like TV makes it seem. you'll find that your friend does it, your mom's friend does it, the mayor does it, etc. Sex is the same way.

So we might as well drop the term ho, because I'd say 85% of women are "hos". And to tell the truth its not a bad thing.

Orgies and threesomes aren't as farfetched as you think.

When the time you feel a SAS coming on, shut the hell up and pull your shlong out buddy! It's what they EXPECT you to do!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MackJr

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I'll admit I haven't done much with the superho women. When I see a chick with midriff, hip hugger, thong and choker, I'm thinking that she's so well-used that I don't have much room for error.

The way you describe it makes it sound like these chicks are easier. I'd like to know what people have found.
 

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Yep, absolutely right.

Occasionally it's the right guy, but most of the time not. How else do you explain women going hot on one date/evening and cold the next?

It's easy to attract women. Anybody can do that with a little social proof and a clean look. What makes a man a DJ is picking up on when women are itching for sex, then amplifying those emotions and acting on them.
 

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It's funny how guys say they don't want to be with ho's but if they want to get laid, it has to be a woamn who'd put out, esentially one who they just called a ho with all the bad connotations associated with the term. Hypocrites :rolleyes: Much better to realize that women want it as badly as we do, especially if they hadn't had any in a while. If choses to succumb to her desires, then by no means is it bad.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kineti[C]harm

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no the funny thing is that guys call girls that put out for sluts and h0es when they really are just sexually free and like sex as us men do.
 

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No,

My point is that the superhoes have heard too many pickup attempts. It seems like you'd need to be at the top of your game to get one of them. Is that true, or is it the opposite, that being hos they put out if you smile on a day that ends in 'y'?
 

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I duno it depends on the chick but in my experiences the ones who have been around and heard the best pickup lines arent any harder they understand not everyone is a master don juan on a side note almost every hot chick ive talked to says she decides if she would **** me the second we meet.... anyone verify this? Sounds like a common thing = Appearance is critical 90% of what ppl percieve you as comes from your cloths/accessories give them something to play with or silk to feel up ;) thats my theory anyway.
Also I was thinking if they are THAT fast Immediately sexual approval ??? think of the possibilities.
 

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Originally posted by AFCinBC
I duno it depends on the chick but in my experiences the ones who have been around and heard the best pickup lines arent any harder they understand not everyone is a master don juan on a side note almost every hot chick ive talked to says she decides if she would **** me the second we meet.... anyone verify this? Sounds like a common thing = Appearance is critical 90% of what ppl percieve you as comes from your cloths/accessories give them something to play with or silk to feel up ;) thats my theory anyway.
Also I was thinking if they are THAT fast Immediately sexual approval ??? think of the possibilities.

afc,

you 've actually asked women when they decide to **** ?
 
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