Walking Pickup

[slickdon]

Okay guys, quick question.

When you walk past a female [you never met or is attracted to], First you'd smile, then you'd say Hi in a strong tone.

BUT DO YOU STOP WALKING?

This pick up is so hard for me. I don't know who to go about this.

Do I stop and try and strike up a conversation?

Say its a crowed hallway or a crowed place in the mall. How do I go about this?

Thanks!

Slick

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It will be easier to stop if you had something to talk about. As she is approaching notice something unique about what she is wearing or carrying. After you say 'hi' and pass, you can then turn around and call her to get her attention. Walk up to her and ask her about whatever you noticed. The rest is up to you.

 

[hardwork]

Haha

Discussion

 

[Slickster]

You see HB approaching. Pretend you don't even notice her. You're checking out the tree beside the sidewalk. As she passes you're so consumed checking out that tree that you just stumble right into her path.

Then its "Oh I'm sorry I was just curious about this tree here...blah...blah...Do you know if its coniferous or deciduous?"

Any old thing to get a conversation going. Then you might switch topics to keep the conversation going.

This way her guard isn't up thinking you're trying to pick her up.
She doesn't even see it coming.

Have a conversation. Throw in something funny and get her laughing. Or maybe at some point you'll both be agreeing about something. Like one of those points where you're saying "I know I feel the same way!" Kind of a time where you might be high fiving each other cuz you both agree about whatever. This is a high point. It is at this point you throw in an SOI (statement of interest) . An SOI is something like "I like you" or "Whats your name?" Something to show you're interested. Then at this point you go for the digits.

I got this stuff from SexPDX. His methods are tested and he knows his sh*t.

What I like about his style is that he seems to pick obscure topics of discussion. And I can see how it works. You come off as interesting and different than all the other schmucks who just walk up and say "Hey thats a cool shirt"

Another of his examples. "Hey I just saw some rabbits over there by my car. Are you from around here cuz I was just wondering if thats a normal thing for this area?"

Something along those lines anyway.

You see it can be just about anything. The key is to get them talking without any indication that you're trying for a pick up.

He advises to walk into a room and look for "openers" (topics of discussion) before you even check out the talent.

Hope that helps.

 

[Walden]

If you have an opener then so long as yr walking in the same direction as her then it's just a straight pickup. If she's going in the opposite direction yr in trouble. It's a bit despicable , but if you ave to you can smile , say Hi and ask if the Spam Museum (or whatever) is on this street and then lead in with "I'm kinda new in town so I'm still finding my bearings..."

I don't really like doing that one tho'

 

[Ricky]

Actually the ignoring suggestion isnt' too bad.

I've done that a couple of times with HB's that I know. They normally are the ones to ignore you and if you do it in a hallway (I did it at work), they think WTF, since every other guy stares at them all the time!

 

[DjDreamer]

Ignoring the importance of the HB (focusing on something and making her the one to make that thing clearer) sets the proper mood. It eliminates the element of uncomfortableness...it's like talking with an old freind...

 

[Mr. Latte]

I'm warning you, this'll get you slapped as often as it'll get you a #. Wait for the girl to walk by, (I'm assuming you're @ school) and knock her books out of her hand. Just obviously slap them out of her hands, don't try and make it look like an accident, that defeats the purpose. Turn to her and say "you dropped something, allow me to pick it up for you." But I don't suggest you try this with someone you haven't at least gotten sighs of high IL from or have a rapport with.

 

[DjDreamer]

Now that approach is just retarded and desperate...

 

[suavedave]

Hmmm

Yea, nice response to the book hitting theory.

**** man, are you crazy, do you field test your stuff?

 

[Don Corleon]

lol

 

[=MERV=DA=PERV=]

just stop her and ask her to marry u..

or act like ur looking for something, and say.. excuse me can u help me i'm looking for something.. then say.. umm.. ur name..

whatever who gives a **** what u say. just meet them... meet them.. meet them.. and say anything.. tell them ur a baD MOTHER****er.. it doesn't matter..


My mate troy... who does really well with the hoe caKES just goes up and tells them he has a picture of Justin timerland on his wall..
and he does it every day. and bangs heaps of nices *****es..

 

[oreo_renegade]

Hey, how you doin?

do what italian guys do!

Go "hey how you doin' *put his arm around her* lets get you a cup of coffee and introduce you to <name>"




the crazy thing is this will actually work as long as you are good looking enough (6+) and are smiling/confidant.


But ANY thing, just about that is unique and not pickup linish sounding will work.

In fact, dont stand there and talk to her, come up introduce yourself and go somewhere with her. this is perfect around lunchtime, etc.

its weird if a guy stops you in the street/hall and talks to you for a long time, but if he says "hey lets go to a place where its a bit more comfortable to talk" then its not so bad.